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12-08-2008, 12:29 PM
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Wife...Lesbian??????.....Are there any signs
How would I know if my wife were a lesbian? She never really seemed to like sex. Been married 16 years and the last 8 have been nill. Made me wear a condom all the time. I think once was without. IMO she thinks sex is dirty. Guys are pigs
Knows more about sports than most men. Always wears pants. Almost dresses a-sexual, if that makes sense.
Doesn't sleep under the same covers as me. She is on top of 2 layers that are over me.
Has not worn her wedding ring, or any jewerly in about 10 years.
Are there any tell tale signs?
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12-08-2008, 12:31 PM
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Can we sticky this one modz?
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12-08-2008, 12:34 PM
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Ask her! "Honey, what do you do? Get up in the morning and flip a coin? Heads its fur burgers. Tails its balls accross the face."  Stop driving yourself crazy. Just ask her and get it over with. |
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12-08-2008, 12:36 PM
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12-08-2008, 12:38 PM
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Slayer of Liberal causes
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Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Quote:
Originally Posted by DFOR
How would I know if my wife were a lesbian? She never really seemed to like sex. Been married 16 years and the last 8 have been nill. Made me wear a condom all the time. I think once was without. IMO she thinks sex is dirty. Guys are pigs
Knows more about sports than most men. Always wears pants. Almost dresses a-sexual, if that makes sense.
Doesn't sleep under the same covers as me. She is on top of 2 layers that are over me.
Has not worn her wedding ring, or any jewerly in about 10 years.
Are there any tell tale signs?
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Even if she was....I'd still get a divorce, She obviously does not love you. |
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12-08-2008, 12:41 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: down south
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Quote:
Originally Posted by DFOR
How would I know if my wife were a lesbian? She never really seemed to like sex. Been married 16 years and the last 8 have been nill. Made me wear a condom all the time. I think once was without. IMO she thinks sex is dirty. Guys are pigs
Knows more about sports than most men. Always wears pants. Almost dresses a-sexual, if that makes sense.
Doesn't sleep under the same covers as me. She is on top of 2 layers that are over me.
Has not worn her wedding ring, or any jewerly in about 10 years.
Are there any tell tale signs?
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Ask her if she likes a threesome with one additional girl.  |
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12-08-2008, 12:41 PM
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secret agent
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Location: a yurt in suburbia
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You've been married for 16 years. Why does it matter?
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12-08-2008, 12:44 PM
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how...???
I doubt if she were suddenly to wear a sign proclaiming her sexuality.
Why not just ask her? Maybe this isn't about her orientation, but something else, something much more difficult for her to discuss. Like you wrote, "She never really seemed to like sex."
You might open a painful chapter here which could bring the two of you closer.
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12-08-2008, 12:47 PM
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It sounds like she doesn't really like you anymore.
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12-08-2008, 12:54 PM
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Senior Member
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Quote:
Originally Posted by DFOR
Are there any tell tale signs?
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Her having sex with women? |
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