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Nothing wrong with admiring a pretty women. I remember when I used to go to my sons softball games. All the wives hated me! The hubbies would all quietly check me out! And of course the smart wives knew. The captain of my sons team actually came to my car window one day and said I had the best legs in town! My son was friends with his son. These were all married men but harmless....just admiring something they saw and liked. It is normal. Men will always fall in lust. It is a part of their imagination they cannot control....SEX!
Looks like you have found what you are looking for in a woman. So, you have a bit of a model of what you are striving for in a woman, next step, find one who is not taken!
Before you all who adhere to the sanctity of marriage line up to stone me, hear me out.
A few times this year, a friend of mine has invited me to his church. The first time I went, I spotted a very lovely lady. Pretty face, nice body.
OK, so now you guys really wanna burn me at the stake, don't you? I have a crush on a married woman and I looked at her body at church!!!!!
Well, it's not what you think. I wasn't sitting there with saliva drooping from my lips with lustful thoughts.
There are some rare, unique women who combine physical beauty with inner beauty, and that inner beauty shines out so strongly that it just stuns the men who see them. Well, consider me stunned.
This woman just got married this past summer, and in fact, my first visit to my friend's church was the week after her wedding. Every week I've gone, I see her spending a lot of time with children, helping them take their seats, caressing the hair of the young girls, and she also serves as a Sunday School teacher.
I was amazed by this woman's gracefulness, her lovely demeanor, her gracious aura. Now, did her physical beauty play no role in me taking a look at her when she wasn't looking? Of course it did. But any strip bar in any American city has women who have physical goods to make a man want to look, face and body... but none would ever have this woman's glow.
My friend said, "Sprawling, she just got married last week. You should've come here a few months ago, who knows?"
Since then I've visited a few times and every time I attend and see her, I quietly admire this uncommon combination of physical and inner beauty. Her husband, who also works at this church and seems like a very humble man, is a lucky man indeed.
Okay.. so your infatuated with a married/church going woman... what is the question here?
I for one am not going to throw stones... looking is one thing...
the issue starts when you begin to try and converse with this woman and start something you shouldnt be...
Sprawling_Homeowner - About having a crush on a married woman, look at it from this aspect, if she, or another woman were married to you, would you want somebody else to have a crush on her? How would you feel if somebody did?
I'm sure you know, or heard of a passage from the Book of Luke, where Jesus told us and his disciples, Luke 6:31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.
A few months ago, my wife and I went to a wine bar to start our evening out away from the kids. We walked into the place and were immediately asked if we were part of the party that was in a separate area of the open room.
We said no and sat on a couch enjoying our wine. However, we started noticing that all the women wore extremely short skirts and had their boobs practically spilling out of their tops.
Curiosity got the best of us and we asked the waiter what the party was. "They're swingers. They meet here once a month," he replied, a little embarrassed.
After awhile, we got our courage up (NOT to play, but because we just had to find out what the deal was). I wrote "Rod" on my name tag, while my wife wrote "Bambi" on hers, and we went up and mingled for about ten minutes. Everybody there dressed as if they had tunneled out of an Assembly Of God, and were wearing what fundamentalists might think were really hot clothes. Hence my theory.
As my wife said, "You know, I wouldn't have done any of those guys." Same with the women.
Sprawling_Homeowner - About having a crush on a married woman, look at it from this aspect, if she, or another woman were married to you, would you want somebody else to have a crush on her? How would you feel if somebody did?
I'm sure you know, or heard of a passage from the Book of Luke, where Jesus told us and his disciples, Luke 6:31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.
And what have I done to her or to her husband that I wouldn't someone to do to me or to my spouse?
Is quietly admiring from afar without having any lustful thoughts and having never spoken to her something that troubling?
geez, some of you people.
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