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Here is my on going problem, my husband is super sweet and is affectionate all the time except he has a BIG porn addiction and he is only interested in sex with me once a week- if Im lucky. I challenged him to have sex with me everyday for a month and he said that is mentally unstable to ask! I have always been cute and guys love to flirt with me and I keep in shape, so what is the deal, is my marriage over?
I can help you out on the sex frequency part.
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Do you watch porn w/ him? Maybe you 2 can make a home movie to rekindle our sex life. Try new things to make it interesting. He's probably gotten bored compared to what he sees on his special videos.
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Originally Posted by New-Mona
My husband won't have sex with me or ....sexless marriage ....the same topic.
I think that it is normal these days....It is not your fault...Don't blame yourself.
Men want to get married to have children and family.......and obviously not to have sex after it is done.
perhaps it's time for counseling? maybe he's getting his sexual needs met by watching porn, and doesn't feel a need to do it physically? I don't know, get some professional help.
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Originally Posted by lillyfrog
Here is my on going problem, my husband is super sweet and is affectionate all the time except he has a BIG porn addiction and he is only interested in sex with me once a week- if Im lucky. I challenged him to have sex with me everyday for a month and he said that is mentally unstable to ask! I have always been cute and guys love to flirt with me and I keep in shape, so what is the deal, is my marriage over?
ok your husband has some freaky stuff going on in his head. where the fantasies are more interesting than the reality. For me reality is the interest but it seems most men have a fasciation with porn. Are you sure he isnt getting some on the side? Your chances of finding a guy without a porn interest is pretty slim.
I say slap a blindfold on him and tie him up and tease him for 2 hours or more.....That will giive him something to fantacise about.
Here is my on going problem, my husband is super sweet and is affectionate all the time except he has a BIG porn addiction and he is only interested in sex with me once a week- if Im lucky. I challenged him to have sex with me everyday for a month and he said that is mentally unstable to ask! I have always been cute and guys love to flirt with me and I keep in shape, so what is the deal, is my marriage over?
Lillyfrog, the porn thing is clearly a serious problem. That he wants porn more that you is a HUGE red flag. No, I am definitely not an anti-porn crusader. But the bottom line is that real interaction with your partner should come before porn, and that is obviously NOT happening with you two.
No, your marriage is not over...but it definitely has a big, fundamental problem. Read this important thread to learn more about the pain, frustration, and heartache that comes with an imbalance of sexual interest: sexless marriage
The bottom line in your situation is that you need sexual satisfaction that your man is not giving you, and that is a VERY big deal.
You two need to see a counselor, pronto. If you stay with him under the current situation (i.e. nothing changes) you will be setting yourself up for extreme pain, frustration, and emotional grief. I know...I've been there. Please get help right away.
Last edited by professorsenator; 12-12-2008 at 09:29 AM..
Porn doesn't have anything to do with it, I watch porn regularly, and my wife cannot keep up with me. "Honey, I'm still sore!", maybe I just need more porn.
Porn doesn't have anything to do with it, I watch porn regularly, and my wife cannot keep up with me.
But your situation is different than lillyfrog's. You apparently give your wife all the sexual satisfaction and fulfillment she wants AND you go for porn for some extra "action." Your taste for porn is not impeding your desire or ability to please and satisfy your partner; it is for lillyfrog's husband.
Here is my on going problem, my husband is super sweet and is affectionate all the time except he has a BIG porn addiction and he is only interested in sex with me once a week- if Im lucky. I challenged him to have sex with me everyday for a month and he said that is mentally unstable to ask! I have always been cute and guys love to flirt with me and I keep in shape, so what is the deal, is my marriage over?
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Seriously........addicted to porn......you know what you have to do.
Act out a porn scene with him. BE real slutty and see how that works out.
It gets real boring just doing the same old boring routine. YES he is thinking about other women when he is having sex with you...visualizing a porn scene he has watched or imagined.
Hungry 4 cheese i just mite call if he doesnt put out
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