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Old 12-14-2008, 08:29 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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I can't give marriage advice, however, that does not sound normal to me. Is he getting it somewhere else, are there issues that make him not into it anymore ?? Men think about sex 24/7 so I would think if he's being asked to roll in the sheets he'd jump at it ... I would think he'd rather make his own porn than watch it on tv ...
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Old 12-14-2008, 11:38 AM
 
Location: TX
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We all have different energy levels. With the constant stress of job and family twice a month is too much for many. It's exhausting.
Limiting to twice a month is grounds for a divorce!
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Old 12-14-2008, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Hope, AR
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Not really. Some of us have shopping and housework duties that leave us very taxed and anemic.

Then there are some women who limit the amount of sex to get concessions from the man (gifts of jewelry, day trip to the spa) before they'll give it up.

Others are Christian and only believe in having sex when it's time to procreate.





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Limiting to twice a month is grounds for a divorce!
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Old 12-14-2008, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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I'd reiterate the advice to seek professional help. I have 2 friends (they are married to each other) that was having similar trouble with sex (he was addicted to porn and not paying attention to her) and they went to a sex therapist a year ago and things have been a LOT better. The therapist helped them work on issues in the bedroom, as well as other issues. She also helped them put the whole porn thing in perspective. I hear that as well as improving their relationship, the also really enjoyed the sessions as well!


I think Gene Simmons wife Shannon Tweed is a sex therapist................or she just plays one in some of her movies...................................... ...............hohoho
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Old 12-14-2008, 06:01 PM
 
Location: Ocean Shores, WA
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There are things you can take that release the same opioids in the brain that sex does.
What are these things called?
How much do they cost?
Where can I get some?
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Old 12-25-2008, 03:23 PM
 
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Here is what you do - dress up like a porn star and tell him to come to bed. He is obviosly not getting something he desires from you.
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Old 12-25-2008, 03:31 PM
 
Location: southern california
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my SO wont either i dont get it, here is a recent snapshot of me.

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Old 12-25-2008, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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My husband won't have sex with me!!!!!!!!


Lucky girl!
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Old 12-27-2008, 03:25 PM
 
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Limiting to twice a month is grounds for a divorce!
No kidding. 11 years of marriage here and we still like to romp very frequently. I cannot imagine only twice a month!!!
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Old 12-29-2008, 02:56 AM
 
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My husband hasn't had sex with me in 10 years. I, in turn, have had 5 affairs because of it. My husband weighs 300 pounds, I am a fit 112. So I don't think it's me that's the physical problem in the relationship. I would KILL to be the person here whose husband chases them around the house or wants to have sex once a week. I've always been a very sexual person and LOVE sex. My husband has never been that way. Why did I marry him??? Who knows. What I do know is that the marriage will not be lasting for much longer. Thank God for the other men I've had in my life - I don't know what I would have done without them. Note to all you men out there: keep your wives happy. We're not above searching for companionship elsewhere if you won't give it to us at home.
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