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I can't give marriage advice, however, that does not sound normal to me. Is he getting it somewhere else, are there issues that make him not into it anymore ?? Men think about sex 24/7 so I would think if he's being asked to roll in the sheets he'd jump at it ... I would think he'd rather make his own porn than watch it on tv ...
Not really. Some of us have shopping and housework duties that leave us very taxed and anemic.
Then there are some women who limit the amount of sex to get concessions from the man (gifts of jewelry, day trip to the spa) before they'll give it up.
Others are Christian and only believe in having sex when it's time to procreate.
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Originally Posted by beowulf7
Limiting to twice a month is grounds for a divorce!
I'd reiterate the advice to seek professional help. I have 2 friends (they are married to each other) that was having similar trouble with sex (he was addicted to porn and not paying attention to her) and they went to a sex therapist a year ago and things have been a LOT better. The therapist helped them work on issues in the bedroom, as well as other issues. She also helped them put the whole porn thing in perspective. I hear that as well as improving their relationship, the also really enjoyed the sessions as well!
I think Gene Simmons wife Shannon Tweed is a sex therapist................or she just plays one in some of her movies...................................... ...............hohoho
My husband hasn't had sex with me in 10 years. I, in turn, have had 5 affairs because of it. My husband weighs 300 pounds, I am a fit 112. So I don't think it's me that's the physical problem in the relationship. I would KILL to be the person here whose husband chases them around the house or wants to have sex once a week. I've always been a very sexual person and LOVE sex. My husband has never been that way. Why did I marry him??? Who knows. What I do know is that the marriage will not be lasting for much longer. Thank God for the other men I've had in my life - I don't know what I would have done without them. Note to all you men out there: keep your wives happy. We're not above searching for companionship elsewhere if you won't give it to us at home.
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