Is this weird or is it just me? (girls, single, attracted)
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Thanks fr the replies..I wasn't bothered by it because I didn't care, but my cousin (who's 33) finds it very odd.
i dont think its that odd either. sometimes people date in a small circle of people they know because its difficult to meet new ones, so maybe that's the case with you. maybe your ego is hurt a little - mine would be. it's still flattering when a guy asks you out whether you say yes or no - but this is like him saying "whatever, you or your sister, doesnt matter which".
This happens. I was double dating with my girlfriend with a guy they set me up with when I was 20. I was not attracted to him. I used to leave the phone on my bed and let him hang on. My sis asked if she could talk to him one time and I said go right ahead. He was 23 at the time and my sis was only 16. Two years later they got married and are still married today with three grown kids. Years ago my other sister dumped her boyfriend while he was in Cali studying for his Bar Exam to be a lawyer. He came home devasted. He eventually told me he always liked me better and asked me out. I refused of course. He recently got married to a much younger Japanese girl.
I do not find this weird at all, nor do I believe it has anything to do with you. He was interested and then became uninterested enough to date your sister. I do not think the man is trying to work you from the outside-in, that is generally bad ju-ju and the average person knows this. Golly. Am I the only one who watches Bold & the Beautiful here?
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. Golly. Am I the only one who watches Bold & the Beautiful here?
LMAO I used to til about five years ago. I couldn't take one more three way with Ridge Forrester and his two twits who thought he was the last man on earth.
LMAO I used to til about five years ago. I couldn't take one more three way with Ridge Forrester and his two twits who thought he was the last man on earth.
Have been watching it since I was 16. I can't stop. I tried. A few times. I'm always pulled back in.
Whats weird is your friends. But deep down inside...I wonder why you keep bringing it up (to your friends, here, etc) and wonder if maybe...just maybe...you "are" interested in him? Or a tad jealous of your sis?
I didn't bring it up with my cousin like I was concerned, it just came out during conversation when my cousin asked who is my sister's boyfriend..truthfully I don't care, we're cordial and everything.
They all think that she's is capable of doing that without telling me then she's sneaky and she's insecure for going after a guy who was interested in me. I dunno..which is why aked you guys.
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