What if the sex is lousy?

[floridadreamer]

Originally Posted by Nala8

I would bail or turn the guy into a platonic friend if he chose not to learn.

Unfortunately I married him, so too late for that.

[DennyCrane]

The first time you sleep with someone, the sex might not be great. You both could be nervous and you're not yet familiar with what each other likes, doesn't like, etc. But hopefully, it's good enough where you want to do it more and as long as both people are willing to learn, there's no reason they can't improve. But if things don't improve or one person doesn't even want to try to improve things, then it's time to end it.

[Nala8]

Originally Posted by floridadreamer

Unfortunately I married him, so too late for that.

c'est damage

[Huckleberry3911948]

it means you married my ex.

[floridadreamer]

Originally Posted by Nala8

c'est damage

Live and learn.

[picklejuice]

Originally Posted by dave nz

This thread actually had me thinking why I have a problem with people saving themselves for marriage and such (rare these days but does happen). In my experience with some women sparks fly with and others its a struggle no matter what you do. How do you know if you are sexually compatable if u don't go there?

The body can tell the tale w/out the deed. Chemistry, is chemistry.