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Old 12-17-2008, 12:08 PM
 
Location: In a delirium
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Some people think it's good when sex sucks.
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Old 12-17-2008, 12:15 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Some people think it's good when sex sucks.
But probably only if the frequency dies down. Imagine sucking combined with too frequent demands...
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Old 12-17-2008, 12:15 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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well, the OP is saying that this person won't even try, so it's a waste of time and relationship. move on and find someone who takes the relationship seriously
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Old 12-17-2008, 12:16 PM
 
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Effort and desire are a huge part of the equation. If you are hot for your partner, want to please them and communicate openly and honestly about what they like....barring physical issues....you will make them very very happy even if starting out with no clue whatsoever.
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Old 12-17-2008, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I think I'd just want to be friends but never really call her again...lol
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Old 12-17-2008, 12:19 PM
 
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An excellent argument for pre-marital sex. Hey, sex isn't the end-all, be-all part of a relationship (Although it's pretty darned close). But if the sex is bad or awkward, very little will help matters.
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Old 12-17-2008, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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so, to delve a little deeper...what constitutes "sucky" sex??
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Old 12-17-2008, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Columbia Maryland
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Yep... I'm outta there!
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Old 12-17-2008, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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well, the OP is saying that this person won't even try, so it's a waste of time and relationship. move on and find someone who takes the relationship seriously
This is just a general question for everyone on the forums.
I'm not having ANY problems with sex sucking. lol.
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Old 12-17-2008, 12:38 PM
 
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I'd suggest to first try to work on it and guide the person to your pleasure spots and give some instruction. See if it improves over time.

If the sex is horrible because of a lack of tact, respect, and chemistry. Then it isn't worth it and yes you should bail.

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This is sort of a spin off the, "How long can you go without sex" thread.

If the sex sucks, would you bail?
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