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Everyone has a different definition of good. Mine having a connection and being totally comfortable with your sex partner. For others, if they aren't having screaming orgasms, the sex sucks. Are orgasms worth losing a relationship that is good/great in every other way? I don't think so.
If everything else is great in the relationship, I'm not about to let sex dictate whether the relationship continues. Eventually, sex becomes a physical impossibility and then what do you have?
It's not only about trying, younglisa. Some things (techniques) can be taught; some things (passion) cannot.
Oh yeah passion is great and I would miss it. But if someone is willing to try to please you, they can still turn you on and maybe the passion or lust will be there.
Religious people will, of course, point out if you only have one partner, you won't know.
Of course I had to go and eat that apple, cherry, peach, cumquat, strawberry, loganberry, rasberry, pear, grape, passionfruit and so on. So yeah, bad sex is a deal breaker for me.
right, I know. I meant that if the SO wasn't willing to even try and improve the sex, then it's a waste of time to stay in an unfufilling relationship.
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Originally Posted by LiveTodayLez08
This is just a general question for everyone on the forums.
I'm not having ANY problems with sex sucking. lol.
right, it does become impossible eventually I suppose, but why have a lifetime of bad sex?
not having screaming orgasms aren't worth losing a partner, but a partner who isn't willing to work on the relationship or value the other's needs, that's when you may have to re-evaluate if it's worth it.
Having terrific sex with a partner who treats you badly, isn't worth it either.
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Originally Posted by CESpeed
Everyone has a different definition of good. Mine having a connection and being totally comfortable with your sex partner. For others, if they aren't having screaming orgasms, the sex sucks. Are orgasms worth losing a relationship that is good/great in every other way? I don't think so.
If everything else is great in the relationship, I'm not about to let sex dictate whether the relationship continues. Eventually, sex becomes a physical impossibility and then what do you have?
The person would have to really suck(so to speak)for sex to be horrible.
Would i bail?Depends on if we are talking short-term relationship,marriage...
And people can do certain things to make up for other things..lol
Anybody see the episode of "King of queens" when his wife got a pole put in their bedroom cause he liked pole dancers. Then when his wife tried to perform the pole dancing he was like, "Stop."
I think this is the same thing. You either got it or don't.
Dead fish sex where they just lay there. That's the worse!
Anybody see the episode of "King of queens" when his wife got a pole put in their bedroom cause he liked pole dancers. Then when his wife tried to perform the pole dancing he was like, "Stop."
I think this is the same thing. You either got it or don't.
Dead fish sex where they just lay there. That's the worse!
Oh. Poles are so much fun.
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