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12-17-2008, 01:08 PM
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Location: Cincinnati, Ohio
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To be honest i have never really had "sucky" sex. I mean obviously sometimes are better than others but i wouldnt classify a single time as "poor." I think women are the ones that claim about suckiness, i have never heard a man claim this before.
G Rizzle
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12-17-2008, 01:08 PM
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Location: Denver, CO
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I realized i walked right into that one!! 
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Well, I think if he did " delve a little deeper" the second part of your question wouldn't be asked.  |
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12-17-2008, 01:09 PM
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Location: California
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I think if you have a foundation of love, respect, good communication, patience, unselfishness, and trust, then you can work something like "bad sex" out. This is why I think you have to lay a solid foundation for a relationship before jumping into bed. Conversely, if you have great sex but not the other things, you will have a lot more serious issues & the good sex will not work those out (not over any length of time). Sex is a poor foundation for a relationship. It's more icing on the cake to me.
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12-17-2008, 01:10 PM
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Location: Denver, CO
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yeah, "dead fish" are bad! so are guys who just grunt while on top with their heads buried in the pillow pumping away!! no interaction, participation, etc. that sucks!! 
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Originally Posted by funymann
Anybody see the episode of "King of queens" when his wife got a pole put in their bedroom cause he liked pole dancers. Then when his wife tried to perform the pole dancing he was like, "Stop."
I think this is the same thing. You either got it or don't.
Dead fish sex where they just lay there. That's the worse!
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12-17-2008, 01:12 PM
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"Time To Start Building:):)"
(set 20 days ago)
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Location: TN Mountains
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Originally Posted by orangeapple
I think if you have a foundation of love, respect, good communication, patience, unselfishness, and trust, then you can work something like "bad sex" out. This is why I think you have to lay a solid foundation for a relationship before jumping into bed. Conversely, if you have great sex but not the other things, you will have a lot more serious issues & the good sex will not work those out (not over any length of time). Sex is a poor foundation for a relationship. It's more icing on the cake to me.
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Oh but the icing is so very good. |
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12-17-2008, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by sportsfangal
Having terrific sex with a partner who treats you badly, isn't worth it either.
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Us men have a hard time learning this. Sometimes, we stay with someone far longer than we should because of the sex. And if it's really good, we let that person get away with a lot of things. You know the term. Whipped.  |
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12-17-2008, 01:12 PM
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Location: Lincoln Park
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ewww. that feels it already hurt. sounds rather stabby with all that pumping and nothing else
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Originally Posted by sportsfangal
yeah, "dead fish" are bad! so are guys who just grunt while on top with their heads buried in the pillow pumping away!! no interaction, participation, etc. that sucks!! |
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12-17-2008, 01:16 PM
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Location: Denver, CO
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it was just soooo unromantic and not the least bit sexy. In fact it put me OUT of the mood. I just waited til it was over so I could watch tv.
because at that point, there was no stopping him to try and change the situation, so I just dealt with it and counted the minutes!!
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Originally Posted by lincolnparker
ewww. that feels it already hurt. sounds rather stabby with all that pumping and nothing else
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12-17-2008, 01:19 PM
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Location: Denver, CO
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true, that can go both ways. An ex-gf of mine stayed with this married man who treated her like dirt because she told me he had a huge **** and the sex was so great.
well, sorry but there's more to life than a huge ****, being with a married man, and being with anyone who treated you badly.
I felt so sorry for her, she would never stop crying and complaining about how much she loved him and blah blah blah, I got sick of hearing about it and never contacted her again.
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Originally Posted by DennyCrane
Us men have a hard time learning this. Sometimes, we stay with someone far longer than we should because of the sex. And if it's really good, we let that person get away with a lot of things. You know the term. Whipped. |
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12-17-2008, 01:40 PM
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Originally Posted by sportsfangal
it was just soooo unromantic and not the least bit sexy. In fact it put me OUT of the mood. I just waited til it was over so I could watch tv.
because at that point, there was no stopping him to try and change the situation, so I just dealt with it and counted the minutes!!
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WOW!
What a selfish a$$ |
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