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Again, you're kidding yourself. When the marriage is dead and money's to be had, he will cut through your assets like a hot knife through butter. Just cross your fingers and pray that he hasn't already found out about your assignations. Surely you weren't dumb enough to use your mobile phone or credit cards were you?
Yeah, yeah. A familiar story, particularly with my attorney friend. You're way too confident. You just can't hide much from a wily divorce attorney, and if your husband has the kind of money you say he does, that's the kind he'll hire. I'd explore matters with a divorce attorney of your own before you get too far down the road. Just disclose fully every dime you have and let him tell you what to do. Chances are, he'll tell you to stop banging this guy until it's over.
Yeah, yeah. A familiar story, particularly with my attorney friend. You're way too confident. You just can't hide much from a wily divorce attorney, and if your husband has the kind of money you say he does, that's the kind he'll hire. I'd explore matters with a divorce attorney of your own before you get too far down the road. Just disclose fully every dime you have and let him tell you what to do. Chances are, he'll tell you to stop banging this guy until it's over.
I do have something most wifes do not. Unlimited power of attorney for my husband. All I want is my stuff anyway. Just not ready yet.
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I would have actually picked that! I had a b/f in college, but I was REALLY attracted to one of my classmates. I didn't cheat, but I really, really wanted to... then like 6 months later I caught HIM cheating! UUUGGGHHH what a waste.
That's kind of why I said that. I turned down three cheat proposals at work while my husband was a truck-driver out of town. Then, he came home with a hickey on his neck. I kid you not that he told me his truck broke down and while he was under it a hot pipe burnt his neck. Yep, we split up.
Sigh. Hubris ain't your buddy here. You'll get nailed in more ways than one.
Is it really worth arguing over? If Driller is confident in how she's got things handled, let it go. If you're right, she'll find out. If you're not right, she'll be lucky. You seem pretty adamant in proving your case against hers..........
Is it really worth arguing over? If Driller is confident in how she's got things handled, let it go. If you're right, she'll find out. If you're not right, she'll be lucky. You seem pretty adamant in proving your case against hers..........
I know, I know. Whenever I see people about to drive over a cliff, I just feel compelled to yell, "Stop! Stop! You're being an idiot!" Shame on me.
I know, I know. Whenever I see people about to drive over a cliff, I just feel compelled to yell, "Stop! Stop! You're being an idiot!" Shame on me.
Nono, no shame in that at all. It never hurts to warn someone of dangerous territory. It is, however, up to them to decide whether or not to heed your advice. Can't force someone to listen to what you have to say. I honestly don't know who is right between you and Driller - only Driller will know for sure. I do know that divorce never seems to go as anyone "plans" - and that is the risk she is willing to take.
I have always been able to make lemon aide out of lemons. And to see that 1+1 just could be 11. Time will tell.
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I kid you not that he told me his truck broke down and while he was under it a hot pipe burnt his neck. 
