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View Poll Results: Have you cheated?
Yes, and they deserved it 7 10.61%
No 51 77.27%
Yes, but felt horrible about it afterwards 8 12.12%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 66. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-19-2008, 12:42 PM
 
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Nono, no shame in that at all. It never hurts to warn someone of dangerous territory. It is, however, up to them to decide whether or not to heed your advice. Can't force someone to listen to what you have to say. I honestly don't know who is right between you and Driller - only Driller will know for sure. I do know that divorce never seems to go as anyone "plans" - and that is the risk she is willing to take.
Oh, I'm counseling that she get divorced. I just don't think playing games with the money is going to help her one bit. It's really a bad move that will only serve to **** off the judge.
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Old 12-19-2008, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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Oh, I'm counseling that she get divorced. I just don't think playing games with the money is going to help her one bit. It's really a bad move that will only serve to **** off the judge.
She did say she was moving towards a divorce (so, essentially agreeing with you). Again, moving the money 'round is a risk she's willing to take. Let her take her risk.
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Old 12-19-2008, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Cumberland Co., TN
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That's kind of why I said that. I turned down three cheat proposals at work while my husband was a truck-driver out of town. Then, he came home with a hickey on his neck. I kid you not that he told me his truck broke down and while he was under it a hot pipe burnt his neck. Yep, we split up.
LOL. I thought Id heard some doozeys. How old was he, 12?
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Old 12-19-2008, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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LOL. I thought Id heard some doozeys. How old was he, 12?
He sure acted 12. Now, 20 years later, he's changed. He acts like a cantankerous 12 year old.
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Old 12-19-2008, 06:49 PM
 
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He sure acted 12. Now, 20 years later, he's changed. He acts like a cantankerous 12 year old.
LOL I think I know him.....
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Old 12-19-2008, 08:31 PM
 
Location: St. Louis
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Top 10 reasons why women cheat - Love + Sex on Shine

Here is the link, someone asked for it earlier. Its just on women though
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Old 12-20-2008, 08:23 AM
 
Location: Tennessee bound...someday
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So I tried to sit back and just read without posting, staying neutral...ain't workin'.

I didn't cheat when I was married, but I really wanted to at times. Sadly, what stopped me was not my good () sense of morals. Rather, I just didn't trust my judgement about anything at the time. In my various lines of work thru the years - airline industry, bar & restaurant ownership, medical field, etc. - infidelity runs rampant. Rarely have I ever seen a situation that is totally black & white; there is always a grey area & that's right where the cheating parks it's sad sorry ass.

I know more than a few marriages that have survived cheating; are stronger in fact because of it. IMO, it boils down to communication. That, and maybe we need to make it harder to get married in the first place; so that when we say our vows, we will understand the effort required of both parties to honour those vows.
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Old 12-20-2008, 08:31 AM
 
Location: FL
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And you don't put in the poll if it was with an ex-boyfriend.....if I answered that..it would look like I might have cheated on my husband, and not someone in the past...so I cannot answer that poll!
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