Ladies: Is It Possible To Be In Love So Much With Your SO To A Point You No Longer Find Other Men Attractive? (date, boyfriend)
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Sorry Mr. Cat but I really wanted to answer this without imposing on the "Guys" thread. I like the topic.
I'll answer. When I was in love this much, I still found other men attractive but seeing them was like being full when someone puts a plate of your favorite dish in front of you--your salivary glands didn't even respond. LOL You're just not interested, at all. Not even enough to take a second look. At least I wasn't.
Sorry Mr. Cat but I really wanted to answer this without imposing on the "Guys" thread. I like the topic.
I'll answer. When I was in love this much, I still found other men attractive but seeing them was like being full when someone puts a plate of your favorite dish in front of you--your salivary glands didn't even respond. LOL You're just not interested, at all. Not even enough to take a second look. At least I wasn't.
What a great analogy!! This is actually how I feel. I recognize that someone is attractive, but I am just not interested at all, no matter how attractive they are.
I really am still very much in love with hubby although he drives me mad quite regularly.
My whole office is full of very beautiful, recently divorced and very bitter women though. Some of whom were madly in love with their husbands until they got dumped for someone else.
Our office is known as the 'hot office', and yet these great looking (and very nice) women got discarded easily. This does worry me sometimes.
I love my boyfriend to the point of not being interested in looking at other men. It's not that I don't think them handsome, but I find that being handsome doesn't mean that they are a great lover or would be wonderful relationship material. If anything, the cuter the guy, the worse they would be as a boyfriend imo. Plus who wants a man that has other women flirting with him?
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Originally Posted by Hobokenkitchen
Our office is known as the 'hot office', and yet these great looking (and very nice) women got discarded easily. This does worry me sometimes.
Being great looking isn't enough to keep a man... and even if they seem like nice women to you, being "nice isn't what holds a relationship together either. And don't forget how often "nice men" complain that women don't want to date them. "Nice" is good for a friendship, but not what it takes to incite passionate feelings in a relationship.
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