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Old 12-24-2008, 09:32 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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Ok, this has probably been discussed many times, but I need fresh responses:
Do guys like it when a girl asks them out? or does it sort of "take the wind out their sails"?

*I don't have a problem asking a guy out after several minutes of conversation if it seems to head in that direction. But at times I've felt that I jumped the gun, and maybe he wanted to ask me first??
any thoughts?
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Old 12-24-2008, 09:53 AM
 
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It would be nice, for a change.
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Old 12-24-2008, 09:54 AM
 
Location: DENVER
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Most guys like it ,it does alot for their egos but just don't do it in front of his friends, cause if you end up in a relationship you will be know as the one that made the first move making him look kinda wimpy. "go broncos"
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Old 12-24-2008, 10:13 AM
 
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I'm all for it.
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Old 12-24-2008, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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cool! (thanks for the Bronco shout-out!)


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Most guys like it ,it does alot for their egos but just don't do it in front of his friends, cause if you end up in a relationship you will be know as the one that made the first move making him look kinda wimpy. "go broncos"
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Old 12-24-2008, 10:24 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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nice!



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I'm all for it.
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Old 12-24-2008, 10:28 AM
 
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I'd love to have a chick invite me to a wekend in Santo Domingo, expenses paid. Sheesh, that'll be the day it'll snow in July.
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Old 12-24-2008, 10:42 AM
 
Location: West Texas
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I think it's just as flattering for a guy as it is for a woman. We have egos, too. But, I'm sure for some guys who have too much ego, or are total wusses, it could be just a big a flag as a guy that comes onto a girl (if done too fast or inappropriately).

Me... I'm just happy when women respond back to me when talking!
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Old 12-24-2008, 10:46 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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thanks, Rath!!! I definately don't want to bruise any egos, but there are times I just want to ask the guy out, already!!!



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I think it's just as flattering for a guy as it is for a woman. We have egos, too. But, I'm sure for some guys who have too much ego, or are total wusses, it could be just a big a flag as a guy that comes onto a girl (if done too fast or inappropriately).

Me... I'm just happy when women respond back to me when talking!
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Old 12-24-2008, 11:24 AM
 
Location: West Texas
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thanks, Rath!!! I definately don't want to bruise any egos, but there are times I just want to ask the guy out, already!!!
Well... IMO if he's that big a wuss he's threatened by you asking him out, you probably don't want to go out with him anyway!!
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