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12-24-2008, 10:32 AM
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Girls asking guys out??
Ok, this has probably been discussed many times, but I need fresh responses:
Do guys like it when a girl asks them out? or does it sort of "take the wind out their sails"?
*I don't have a problem asking a guy out after several minutes of conversation if it seems to head in that direction. But at times I've felt that I jumped the gun, and maybe he wanted to ask me first??
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12-24-2008, 10:53 AM
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It would be nice, for a change.
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12-24-2008, 10:54 AM
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Most guys like it ,it does alot for their egos but just don't do it in front of his friends, cause if you end up in a relationship you will be know as the one that made the first move making him look kinda wimpy. "go broncos"
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12-24-2008, 11:13 AM
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I'm all for it.
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12-24-2008, 11:23 AM
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cool! (thanks for the Bronco shout-out!)
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Originally Posted by el borracho
Most guys like it ,it does alot for their egos but just don't do it in front of his friends, cause if you end up in a relationship you will be know as the one that made the first move making him look kinda wimpy. "go broncos"
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12-24-2008, 11:24 AM
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nice!
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Originally Posted by Sunil's Dad
I'm all for it.
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12-24-2008, 11:28 AM
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I'd love to have a chick invite me to a wekend in Santo Domingo, expenses paid. Sheesh, that'll be the day it'll snow in July.
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12-24-2008, 11:42 AM
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"Hope is the dream of a waking man." - Aristotle
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I think it's just as flattering for a guy as it is for a woman. We have egos, too. But, I'm sure for some guys who have too much ego, or are total wusses, it could be just a big a flag as a guy that comes onto a girl (if done too fast or inappropriately).
Me... I'm just happy when women respond back to me when talking!  |
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12-24-2008, 11:46 AM
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thanks, Rath!!! I definately don't want to bruise any egos, but there are times I just want to ask the guy out, already!!!
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Originally Posted by Rathagos
I think it's just as flattering for a guy as it is for a woman. We have egos, too. But, I'm sure for some guys who have too much ego, or are total wusses, it could be just a big a flag as a guy that comes onto a girl (if done too fast or inappropriately).
Me... I'm just happy when women respond back to me when talking! |
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12-24-2008, 12:24 PM
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"Hope is the dream of a waking man." - Aristotle
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Originally Posted by sportsfangal
thanks, Rath!!! I definately don't want to bruise any egos, but there are times I just want to ask the guy out, already!!!
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Well... IMO if he's that big a wuss he's threatened by you asking him out, you probably don't want to go out with him anyway!!  |
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