Austin
Providence
Boston
Chapel Hill
I've spent a fair amount of time in each. I put Austin first because of the weather & the guys. I mean the city itself & the music scene - all very cool - but there's just a lot of
gentlemen in Austin! Also seems like a greater range of ages & niches when you are looking for a night out.
I put Providence ahead of Boston because it's a bit cheaper than Boston (not by much, but hey it adds up!), but still close enough to Beantown when you need a fix. Plus the Rhode Island School of Design just keeps churning out this amazing talent that I think, for you, would be so great to be around. I was surprised by Sportsfangal's statement regarding lack of diversity - I thought it seemed to be pretty good 'eclectic'
mix of everything! Maybe just my individual experiences, I guess.
I agree with others about Chapel Hill. I love the area but think it would have to fall last on your list when compared to such great "singles" towns like Boston & Austin!