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this type of thing happens a lot in "the hood" or urban areas. obviously, her "man" has 2 or 3 different girls at the very least. he's a man so obviously he's still tapping his baby's mama. plus, the OP has serious self hate/self esteem issues. he probably keeps her down.
Why must she be a troll. As you regulars know, many of you who have a really dirty secret/problem will create a new screen name so people you are familiar with wont know your secrets. I rarely see any regular posters posting anything personal that will show them in a negative light.
Anyway, people with kids stay because they know they'll miss the kids and miss the family things they all do together. Its very hard to leave someone when you have their kid, even if you're not in love with them. Since he just wants a bit more time, I would cautiously give it to him. But after his deadline that he created, I would leave. Personally I wouldn't get involved with someone who already has a girlfriend though, so I'm not sure why you went that route in the first place.
I was told that new screen names cannot be opened under the same IP address...if someone in your family wants to join they need to ask a mod to override it...
Tell him to contact you when he has a place of his own. Then do NOT call him and stick to your guns. If he moves out, you'll know he is serious and worthy of trust. If he stays, be thankful you lost a loser.
Some of us don't get a chance to know if we are dealing with jerks before it gets serious. You got that chance. Make the most of it.
my boyfriend lives with his baby mama and they have 2 kids together and he say they not together like that and he say he is moving when he get his taxes back and should i stay in this relationship or move on do i believe in him and stick it out i told him by the end of jan if he still there im gone is that right.
He still lives with his BM and that is your man? OMG how old are you? He is still sleeping with her taxes wit hcome and go why cant he afford to move before yall got together? Um this sounds real fishy and my advice to you is MOVE ON!!!!!! because its not worth the drama
Funny situation because I'm in the same boat. My supposedly boyfriend lives with his baby mother. We have been together for like 4 months and his excuse is he's saving enough money to get a place. I have gone house hunting and looking for apartments with him in the past 3 weeks. I live by myself and I'm not expecting him to move in with me but at least he needs to move out if he wants to be with me..
Funny situation because I'm in the same boat. My supposedly boyfriend lives with his baby mother. We have been together for like 4 months and his excuse is he's saving enough money to get a place. I have gone house hunting and looking for apartments with him in the past 3 weeks. I live by myself and I'm not expecting him to move in with me but at least he needs to move out if he wants to be with me..
How could you even put up with four months of being "the other woman"? If you are calling him your boyfriend, have you slept with him? I think that the only way I would put up with that excuse of needing to save enough money to move out of her place, would be if I got to meet his baby mother and she was fine with me dating her ex boyfriend. Otherwise, how would I know for sure that they weren't still an item?
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