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Old 01-06-2009, 02:59 PM
 
Location: Frisco,TX
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Sounds like to me you went from cuddle buddy to just plain buddy. Next phaze you'll be like a sister and who likes cuddling up with your sister ewwww.
Another question...you cuddled for 5 days straight?? Are you sure you don't want another relationship?

 
Old 01-06-2009, 03:01 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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I am only into guys though
Optiflex IS a guy.

My ex was THAT good. Man I miss him for that reason
 
Old 01-06-2009, 03:04 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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I'm a guy! But i've heard "You do that as good as a woman!" My first wife owned a strip club. I used to hang out with the girls a lot. I was intriqued as to how many women start out straight and end up being at least BI. "It's because Women know EXACTLY how to please women", A gal decided to give me lessons and unleash me on society! And that's the secret origin of Captaiiiiiiiiiin Carpet Muncherrrrrrrrrrr!
 
Old 01-06-2009, 03:05 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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Optiflex IS a guy.

My ex was THAT good. Man I miss him for that reason
Sherry???? LOL
 
Old 01-06-2009, 03:08 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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A gal decided to give me lessons and unleash me on society!
Oh, so a strip club is responsible for creating a monster!
 
Old 01-06-2009, 03:09 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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Originally Posted by meowmeowmm View Post
I only have a good girl look.
Girls school before college...strict parents...but I am a wild girl inside my heart.
My big ego comes into play eh. Thanks for pointing things out. I guess i really need to ask myself, what do I want?
I dunno,I don't really know you to come a conclusion.Im just saying you want to refrain from full blown sex yet are wondering why he won't push for it.We all have some ego,but with women even more so the fact is when a guy doesn't want you alot of times then a girl gets into "but why not?" mode...even when you wouldn't wanted him if he had wanted you.If he had pushed you to get sex you would probably be calling him a pig yet since he is making you wait....you wonder what's wrong with him.
 
Old 01-06-2009, 03:22 PM
 
Location: New York
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Originally Posted by Teamspirit View Post
Sounds like to me you went from cuddle buddy to just plain buddy. Next phaze you'll be like a sister and who likes cuddling up with your sister ewwww.
Another question...you cuddled for 5 days straight?? Are you sure you don't want another relationship?
Not 5 days straight

Let me see, Sunday, Tuesday, Thursday (New Year's Day), Saturday night, and Sunday night.
 
Old 01-06-2009, 03:23 PM
 
Location: New York
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Optiflex IS a guy.

My ex was THAT good. Man I miss him for that reason
Oops My bad
 
Old 01-06-2009, 03:34 PM
 
Location: New York
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Anyways, I want to thanks everyone for their replies
One thing I like about receiving answers from someone who does not know you is that answers are all bold and straight forward.
I have found several problems in myself:

1) Ego problem - Why am i in a "why not?" mode when I only want a cuddle buddy (no full sex) in the first place?
2) We have stepped over the boundary of cuddle buddy only. I guess I need time to think about the direction or purpose of this relationship i am in.
3) I am having some trust issues here also. Not every men out there will be like my last two exes. I guess i need more time for this.
4) cheap tease I don't like this term that much, but it is appropriate to some extend. I already found myself a new date (my new SLR camera) so I will not go out for too many dates until i am fully ready. Maybe a new hobby is the way to go. I should give myself more time.
5) I need to work on my writing skills

That's what I come up with so far

Thanks everyone. I guess these problems can be my New Year Resolutions
 
Old 01-06-2009, 03:39 PM
 
Location: On the Sunny Side of the Street
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Good luck, Meow. I can come across pretty harsh sometimes, but I don't like mincing words.

You deserve much better, but until you come to that conclusion yourself, it's best to stick with the camera
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