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interesting points, sierra! you're right, but with the hotel thing, I guess when we check in, I like to get going and do stuff, not sit in the room and have sex right away. Of course after the beach or dinner or a day out, then nothing's better than coming back to the room and a shower and fresh sheets and.......well, you know! I think it's more timing with me. There are just a few occassions that I don't want to combine with sex or touch at that particular moment. I guess I'm not explaining it right?
Oh, and I can't miss a big game!! C'mon guys, some of you agree with me on that one, right???!!!??
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It's hard to give any opinion as the "usual" amount appears to be very different from person to person. And on vacation... what's more delicious than going back to your room after the beach, take a shower, enjoy yourselves and the perfect hotel sheets , and take a nap...
LOL, you're presenting an interesting choice to the guys - sports fan or affection/sex! I'd be very interested to hear how they’re gonna swing on this one! I’d think that’s the one time when sports lose the battle!
I think you shouldnt assume that just because he is stroking your arm or holding your hand that it automatically means he wants to have sex. It could be just a sign of affection or he is getting rid of nervousness. Or it could mean "what ya doing after the game?" Maybe you should just say to him that YOU have a hard time concentrating on the game when he is stroking you. That just about any man could understand.
I think you shouldnt assume that just because he is stroking your arm or holding your hand that it automatically means he wants to have sex. It could be just a sign of affection or he is getting rid of nervousness. Or it could mean "what ya doing after the game?" Maybe you should just say to him that YOU have a hard time concentrating on the game when he is stroking you. That just about any man could understand.
So, I have this dilemma - ladies, what do you do when your guy touches you way too much? what I mean is, I have gone out with a few guys who have just done way too much touching. Example, we could be sitting on the couch, watching tv, and he feels the need to continually stroke my arm, or want to kiss me, or touch me in some way. Most of the time, I want to just watch tv (especially when the game's on!) and enjoy the company, but I don't want to ALWAYS have to be touched. Do any of you feel this way?
I'm sure it's because they like me and that's a nice thing, but it borders on annoying when he has to touch me at all times. How do I politely tell him to not touch/stroke me all the time without sounding like a *b* or that I don't want affection?
Another scenario I encounter is when I have been on vacation with a guy, I don't want to feel like I have to always get intimate just because we get back to the hotel to change for dinner or something like that? Can't we wait until later in the evening for that?
Now, I love affection and romance and sex and all that, don't get me wrong, but c'mon, enough already!! Any tips or thoughts would be appreciated.
(p.s.- these aren't bf's)
Good luck with that! When you find the answer let me know!!!
well, somtimes that's true, but not necessarily in the instances I'm talking about. I am referring to constant touching in non-sexual situations. It's those times, I don't feel like touching all the time or being touched. like watching tv, cooking, or whatever.
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Why do I get the feeling that many seem to perceive affection as a prelude to sex always...?
Yes. That is normal for you to feel that way because you are not "in the mood".....
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well, somtimes that's true, but not necessarily in the instances I'm talking about. I am referring to constant touching in non-sexual situations. It's those times, I don't feel like touching all the time or being touched. like watching tv, cooking, or whatever.
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