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Old 01-06-2009, 12:52 PM
 
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Why is it that whenever I go out on dates with females I'm absolutely, 100% compatible with they wind up "just wanting to be friends"? Yet, when I go out on dates with people whom I can't wait for the date to end due to lack of things to talk about and such, they wind up calling, and calling and calling. Is it because I show the girls that I'm compatible with slight interest??? Anyways....I've come to the conclusion that you married people are indeed lucky, and that the dating GAME this day and age for 20 somethings is nothing short of a nightmare!
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Old 01-06-2009, 01:05 PM
 
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Just keep pitching. Sooner or later you're bound to hit a home run.
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Old 01-06-2009, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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I hope that's true, because I'm of pitching!!


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Just keep pitching. Sooner or later you're bound to hit a home run.
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Old 01-06-2009, 01:09 PM
 
Location: southern california
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married are lucky????
1/2 of married guys dont agree as they will soon be divorced and have a huge settlement to pay.
75% of those will be involuntary (filed by wife)
as to dating i saw an ad on a south west airline flight in a magazine,
apartment hunters blah blah blah inc.
tired of feeling broke humiliated and sleazy looking for an apartment, dont
thats what dating is for.
call 1 800 blah blah blah
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Old 01-06-2009, 01:26 PM
 
Location: On the Sunny Side of the Street
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Why is it that whenever I go out on dates with females I'm absolutely, 100% compatible with they wind up "just wanting to be friends"? Yet, when I go out on dates with people whom I can't wait for the date to end due to lack of things to talk about and such, they wind up calling, and calling and calling. Is it because I show the girls that I'm compatible with slight interest??? Anyways....I've come to the conclusion that you married people are indeed lucky, and that the dating GAME this day and age for 20 somethings is nothing short of a nightmare!
That's the Law of Dating.

Marriage is simply the ability to accept mediocrity. It's highly overrated, and truly a construct of religion.
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Old 01-06-2009, 10:08 PM
 
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Why is it that whenever I go out on dates with females I'm absolutely, 100% compatible with they wind up "just wanting to be friends"? Yet, when I go out on dates with people whom I can't wait for the date to end due to lack of things to talk about and such, they wind up calling, and calling and calling. Is it because I show the girls that I'm compatible with slight interest??? Anyways....I've come to the conclusion that you married people are indeed lucky, and that the dating GAME this day and age for 20 somethings is nothing short of a nightmare!
Its obvious. When you want to impress, you're nervous and unless you are a top 20 percentile, women will never give you a second chance. I've seen many comments on this site where women will say they know they never want to see the guy again after only a few minutes. They have this sixth sense about it, apparently. (Meanwhile other posts say men should give women at least 6 months!) Whatever you say, it will be interpreted negatively. When you are nervous, they are looking for any excuse to cut things off.

When you aren't interested, you are relaxed and this impresses a lot of women. If you are a top percentile type, you could even throw off insults and have them eating out of your hand. I doubt they are even listening, just soaking up the "vibes".

So, my advice is: next time you are with a women who doesn't interest you, get nervous fast. Sorry I can't help you with the first type. Have you considered cosmetic surgery? Winning the lottery is such a long shot.
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Old 01-07-2009, 12:26 AM
 
Location: New York
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Its obvious. When you want to impress, you're nervous and unless you are a top 20 percentile, women will never give you a second chance. I've seen many comments on this site where women will say they know they never want to see the guy again after only a few minutes. They have this sixth sense about it, apparently. (Meanwhile other posts say men should give women at least 6 months!) Whatever you say, it will be interpreted negatively. When you are nervous, they are looking for any excuse to cut things off.

When you aren't interested, you are relaxed and this impresses a lot of women. If you are a top percentile type, you could even throw off insults and have them eating out of your hand. I doubt they are even listening, just soaking up the "vibes".

So, my advice is: next time you are with a women who doesn't interest you, get nervous fast. Sorry I can't help you with the first type. Have you considered cosmetic surgery? Winning the lottery is such a long shot.
Actually we can tell by the first few seconds.
Well, unless I know they guy well enough before we met, then i will be less judgmental.
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Old 01-07-2009, 12:28 AM
 
Location: THEN: Paso Robles, Ca * NOW: Albuquerque, NM
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Well, I'll take a date ... and I won't play games either! =)
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Old 01-08-2009, 09:16 AM
 
Location: southern california
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as to dating sucks-- good morning
dear anonymous poster who left the nasty note on my rep
i report any such notes to admin they can see who posted them
please check your skirt your conscience is showing.
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Old 01-08-2009, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Cincinnati, Ohio
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Why is it that whenever I go out on dates with females I'm absolutely, 100% compatible with they wind up "just wanting to be friends"? Yet, when I go out on dates with people whom I can't wait for the date to end due to lack of things to talk about and such, they wind up calling, and calling and calling. Is it because I show the girls that I'm compatible with slight interest??? Anyways....I've come to the conclusion that you married people are indeed lucky, and that the dating GAME this day and age for 20 somethings is nothing short of a nightmare!
Just wait till you get married and you will know how wrong you are. Being single and dating is so free - you get to make your own rules and play your own game. And dating is great, if you got GAME.

G Rizzle
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