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01-06-2009, 06:02 PM
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If ignorance is bliss why aren't more people happy
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains
Very intelligent post - hope he's paying attention. Frankly he's got much bigger fish to fry than why she's taking these pills - how many people go this long without sex in their marriage without talking aoubt it????  |
I have 2 friends who went YEARS without sex...
1) was in an abusive marriage, didn't have sex after she got pregnant with their last child and found out her husband had been having an affair that started 3 months after she was pregnant.
2) my friend did not have sex with her husband for years and later found out he was gay...
Neither situation is very good... |
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01-06-2009, 06:08 PM
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Lucky and blessed :)
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Originally Posted by mrstewart
I have 2 friends who went YEARS without sex...
1) was in an abusive marriage, didn't have sex after she got pregnant with their last child and found out her husband had been having an affair that started 3 months after she was pregnant.
2) my friend did not have sex with her husband for years and later found out he was gay...
Neither situation is very good...
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Oh, I know it happens, just saying he should be able to talk to her about it all and then he'd have no need to come here and ask us what's going on  |
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01-06-2009, 06:10 PM
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If ignorance is bliss why aren't more people happy
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01-06-2009, 06:11 PM
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Lucky and blessed :)
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OH, I KNOW  No worries mrstewart - it's all good  |
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01-06-2009, 06:13 PM
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If ignorance is bliss why aren't more people happy
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains
OH, I KNOW No worries mrstewart - it's all good |
Personally, I can't imagine! 
Perhaps she is trying to "revirginate" her self so she can join a convent...
Don't the Catholics consider you a virgin if you have not had sex in 7 years?? Or was I dreaming during theology class in college?? |
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01-06-2009, 08:03 PM
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I don't get where the OP said they haven't had sex in 6 years. I read that they haven't had sex in years - but he didn't say how many years. Not that it matters, I guess. I just like to point out inconsistencies. LOL
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01-06-2009, 08:05 PM
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If ignorance is bliss why aren't more people happy
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Originally Posted by Twinkle Toes
I don't get where the OP said they haven't had sex in 6 years. I read that they haven't had sex in years - but he didn't say how many years. Not that it matters, I guess. I just like to point out inconsistencies. LOL
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I don'tknow where I got 6 years...hmmm...perhaps it was a nightmare!! |
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01-06-2009, 08:12 PM
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I don'tknow where I got 6 years...hmmm...perhaps it was a nightmare!! |
That would be my husband's nightmare! |
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01-06-2009, 08:37 PM
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BC makes many womens lives better in many ways. many take it regardless of its original intended purpose. maybe your wifey didnt want you to think she was taking it bc she was having sex,( im saying most likely she isnt sleeping around most likely just takes it for its benefits) maybe she'd rather not explain that it makes her life easier, or that she has a pms related disorder like pmdd. plus some BC has mood stabilizing effects like yaz.
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01-06-2009, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted by restorationpromise
I guess I need a talk with my wife sometime. She is deffinately trying to keep this a secrete but I just discovered it. Why is she taking birthcontrol? We have not had sex in years. Is she horny and ready to get back in bed with me? Is she having a sex fling? Or does birth control help reduce PMS or whatever side effects?
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I would suspect an affair. |
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