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Unread 09-09-2009, 10:24 AM
 
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My take is that he could be shy. Seriously.

I had a friend in high school look directly at my chest when I would talk to him. Trust me...I don't have man boobs to look at. It was just a shy guy that couldn't look you directly in the eyes when talking to you.

I don't know any guy that would do this on purpose. He would have some serious nerves of steel to look directly at the girls when he knows you are talking to him. Yeah, we take a look but do it when you are not looking at us. Yeah...we get caught but a guy doing it while talking to you....? I think he is shy.

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One of my girlfriends and I, well, first let me rewind a little
I had to have a professional come to the home for some minor repairs..

He was very nice, professional and all that, but the one thing that always makes my skin crawl, is when your talking to a man, he his eyes, go directly to your chest, and he never focuses his eyes on you, but is constantly going to your chest with his eyes....ewwwwwww

ONe man I knew who did this, told me he was fired b/c the women complained about it, and I told him, you do, and it's very uncomforable for a woman...and I don't believe you even know you do it....

it is a disgusting habit...on the part of some men, and as I said, I don't even believe they realize they are doing it????

What's your take?

Creme
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Unread 09-09-2009, 10:37 AM
 
Location: lala land
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This is very annoying. Especially when I am wearing a shirt that is not revealing in any way shape or form. If a work colleage does this, I lose respect for them right away. My old supervisor used to do this. When I would get up from sitting, I would always catch him looking me up and down. It was gross. And not all men do this, so I know men are perfectly capable of controlling their eye balls. But for some reason some guys just don't have any manners, or they don't think you notice where their eyes are going. I can understand if I am dressed provocatively, or if it is a guy I am dating. But in general, it is just creepy .
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Unread 09-09-2009, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I only like it if I find a man attractive, if I don't find a man attractive then I don't care for it and my reaction is more like (eww, why is this creepy man starring at me?)
Isn't it a horrible thing to say/admit??? But I bet you it's true for most if not all women, they just don't want to admit it.
Hey max's mama--do me a favor and look in the mirror. Now really! Can ya blame us for staring?????????????
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Unread 09-15-2009, 11:32 AM
 
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I am a righteous dude; like looking...but here is the thing..i am also a kind person, without a female, and fairly good looking male. That being said; i think women who show out are nice, sexy; but you are right..they don't deserve aggressive macho pigs pawing visually or verbally over them! Was on the receiving end of a playboy bunny at the apatment house where i used to live...turns out she was an undercover vice agent after my hide...deadly tatas with a .38! Ran for my life..smatest-ass thing i ever did! Consider also, i had been poisoned by the lovely pharmacutical company, pfizzer, having my trusted doctor giving me avandia medication...and the heart-attack made me neutured like a gelded horse..i think i have more issues to bear then a wink now-and-then at a sexy lady,agreed?!
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