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Old 01-17-2009, 04:30 AM
 
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I'm at home alone now. My boyfriend has gone out with with his friends. And because he isn't with me I didn't go to college. I'm missing him a lot. I know he won't be able to call me because he's with his friends.n I don't want to call him either and disturb him. But now I'm feeling lonely and missing him a lot. What should I do?
I always want him to be with me. I know it can't happen because he has work and friends. I leave everything to be with him. I love him and I'm missing him.
sometimes when he's not with me I listen to his favorite songs but that makes me worse. I'll miss him more wanted to see him immediately and I start crying.
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Old 01-17-2009, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Your post is kinda confusing, but maybe you should get out with your friends as well. No sense in sitting around longing for him, wishing he was there. Get out and have fun!
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Old 01-17-2009, 09:40 AM
 
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Default Damn!

Read this:

Codependency & Recovery from codependent relationships
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Old 01-17-2009, 09:59 AM
 
Location: in purgurtory in London
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I'm at home alone now. My boyfriend has gone out with with his friends. And because he isn't with me I didn't go to college. I'm missing him a lot. I know he won't be able to call me because he's with his friends.n I don't want to call him either and disturb him. But now I'm feeling lonely and missing him a lot. What should I do?
I always want him to be with me. I know it can't happen because he has work and friends. I leave everything to be with him. I love him and I'm missing him.
sometimes when he's not with me I listen to his favorite songs but that makes me worse. I'll miss him more wanted to see him immediately and I start crying.
I feel for ya. Being a teenager in love sucks
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Old 01-17-2009, 10:03 AM
 
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Sounds to me you have some serious growing up to do. You have no business being in a relationship if this is what it does to you.

Go back to school, get some friends, get some hobbies, GROW UP!

Men aren't turned on by clingy, whiny kids who grow into clingy, whiny girls (clingy & whiny isn't a woman).
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Old 01-17-2009, 10:07 AM
 
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go out and fun because he is and he wouldn't want you to just sit at home a moap around waiting for him to call you. think of it his way by putting yourself in his shoes and what he would want for you unless he his controling he would want you to go out your friends and have fun. Life is to short to not live life to its fullest!
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Old 01-17-2009, 10:42 AM
 
Location: Ocean Shores, WA
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I'm at home alone now.
What are you wearing?
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Old 01-17-2009, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Glencoe MN
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I would join a holy spirit filled church & meet people & pray. Start a life of your own. And learn about the Lord Jesus got me through when I was widowed & my church fellow believers helped me to fill the void. Having a good relationship with Christ has kept me focussed & he is giving me resouces to get me through. I am also seperated from my husband. And started praying for him to be reconsiled with Christ. I am still healing & will be able to do whatever God will is for me. But it is lonely & I understand. Hang in there I will pray now for you to find Christ & a christ centered church. Jesus will help you fill the void no man can. Amen
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Old 01-17-2009, 10:53 AM
 
Location: Washington, DC & New York
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First and foremost, go to college! You will meet your own friends there and can then have a healthy relationship with your boyfriend where you are not so dependent upon him. Do not squander educational pursuits for a romantic relationship.
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Old 01-17-2009, 10:57 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Sounds to me you have some serious growing up to do. You have no business being in a relationship if this is what it does to you.

Go back to school, get some friends, get some hobbies, GROW UP!

Men aren't turned on by clingy, whiny kids who grow into clingy, whiny girls (clingy & whiny isn't a woman).
Agree w post. OP needs to get her own life and quit being so dependent on another for happiness. No guy likes clingy girls.
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