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Old 01-17-2009, 10:54 PM
 
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I once dated this white girl while I was in college. One day we had this argument and I proposed that we should end our relationship, and stated that I will give all of her things back. We were going back and forth and all of a sudden she said that word..."N". I was "what you called me", after that I believe her sister picked up the phone and said that she is upset and apologized.

Since then, I told myself I would not go after any white woman unless I analyzed her thoroughly and absolutely certain she has no racial tendencies, which I doubt because I know most white people do. Now I know she was upset, but why call me a "N"? Now I know I have dated a racist and that made me sick even to this day.

It feels as if I attract these white woman, yet when I do something wrong there true colors come out and they show their racial prejudice. Even when I don't know them that well they try to impress me by acting black and saying ridiculous things. Guess that saying is true that if your black you have to be almost flawless, cause if you make a mistake trouble begins. *Sigh* Life lessons huh

Anyone has been in a position where I am at, where somebody that you liked so much ended up being something terrible like a racist?

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Old 01-17-2009, 10:56 PM
 
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Dem crackers always be hatin
 
Old 01-17-2009, 10:56 PM
 
Location: southern california
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that funny hear it on the hood all the time of course everybody is black but me.
 
Old 01-17-2009, 10:58 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Sigh* Here we go again.......
She was probably angry...in the heat of the moment, type of thing.
 
Old 01-17-2009, 10:59 PM
 
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maybe you should get over it now
 
Old 01-17-2009, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Since then, I told myself I would not go after any white woman unless I analyzed her thoroughly and absolutely certain she has no racial tendencies, which I doubt because I know most white people do.
Sorry, I was about to say something positive in your favor but I suddenly lost that thought.
 
Old 01-17-2009, 11:01 PM
 
Location: in purgurtory in London
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I once dated this white girl while I was in college. One day we had this argument and I proposed that we should end our relationship, and stated that I will give all of her things back. She started back and forth and all of a sudden she said that word..."N". I was "what you called me", after that I believe her sister picked up the phone and said that she is upset and apologized.

Since then, I told myself I would not go after any white woman unless I analyzed her thoroughly and absolutely certain she has no racial tendencies, which I doubt because I know most white people do. Now I know she was upset, but why call me the "N". Now I know I have dated a racist and that made me sick even to this day.

Anyone has been in a position where I am at, where somebody that you liked so much ended up being something terrible like a racist?
She wasn't a racist...she just wanted to hurt you and I guess the word flew out.
 
Old 01-17-2009, 11:03 PM
 
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She wasn't a racist...she just wanted to hurt you and I guess the word flew out.
Yep. Did you ever call her a b**** or something similarily deragatory toward females?
 
Old 01-17-2009, 11:08 PM
 
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Default Repeat this...

Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me.
 
Old 01-17-2009, 11:14 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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What in the world is all this hooplah about this word here...?! In many languages variations of it are the normal official words describing Blacks!
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