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01-18-2009, 02:01 PM
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Junior Member
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: My House =P
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Boyfriend
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. He always complains that he never has money because of me anymore. Though, I pay for his gas to come see me and for dinner and such if we go out... His excuse is because I have 2 jobs.
He also complains that I dont look as good as I used too. I used to tan and get my nails done but now I dont have money for that anymore. He also gets mad when I go to my friend Drew's house (I have known Drew since I was in diapers and he is a good family friend).. He doesn't like Drew, I dont know why but I am pretty sure he doesn't trust me at all.  |
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01-18-2009, 02:02 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2007
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Quote:
Originally Posted by JoannaElizabeth
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. He always complains that he never has money because of me anymore. Though, I pay for his gas to come see me and for dinner and such if we go out... His excuse is because I have 2 jobs.
He also complains that I dont look as good as I used too. I used to tan and get my nails done but now I dont have money for that anymore. He also gets mad when I go to my friend Drew's house (I have known Drew since I was in diapers and he is a good family friend).. He doesn't like Drew, I dont know why but I am pretty sure he doesn't trust me at all. |
Dump him..... |
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01-18-2009, 02:03 PM
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Location: My House =P
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That would be really easy if I actually didn't care for him.
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01-18-2009, 02:04 PM
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Senior Member
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"I hate stupid people..."
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: South Carolina
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I 2nd Driller.
Get rid of him. He's trifling.
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01-18-2009, 02:29 PM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: somewhere..just moved
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Uhh, why is he your boyfriend?
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01-18-2009, 02:31 PM
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Junior Member
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Join Date: Jan 2009
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Not liking your guy friend is a danger sign of an abuser. I would get out while you still have the chance. I know it's much easier said than done, but think of how grateful you'll be years from now.
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01-18-2009, 02:33 PM
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ichigo ichie 1 time 1 meeting unprecedented
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: southern california
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does not sound very healthy. wanting something too much is never a good thing. if its a good match he should be paying and smiling.
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01-18-2009, 02:33 PM
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Uber Wolf
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Some place very cold
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Good Lord, you pay for his gas to come have dinner with you?
Girlfriend, you need to dump his a$$....
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01-18-2009, 02:36 PM
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Moderator
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"Starting to look alot like Christmas!!"
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Tennessee
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He sounds so negative! Why would you allow him to bring you down like this?  Move on! |
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01-18-2009, 02:38 PM
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secret agent
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: a yurt in suburbia
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Any partner who complains about things like that is on his way out. He's looking for an excuse to leave.
Your only way to save face to to tell him to get a better job or things are over. Either way, your relationship is rapidly drawing to a close.
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