I see nothing wrong with it. My dh and I kind of took a "business side" to it all right b4 the engagement, when we were discussing the possibilities of marraige. I had a house and a kid and he had a nicer house and more savings. We actually sat down and looked at both credit reports and bills. Then he asked for a pre-nup. We didnt have lawyers though. and ended up not signing one more because he was to cheap to get a lawyer.
anyway I had no problem with signing one, but he kept pulling up basic pre-nups off the internet that didnt work for us. someone signing the prenup has to be very careful. If I would have just signed it without really understanding I could have been totally screwed. he got real upset with me a few times but understood why I wouldnt sign. I think that was the first real test of our comunication skills, and how much we cared for each other to make sure both of us were protected.
anyway 8 yrs later we are still married.
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