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01-19-2009, 05:23 PM
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Do you share everything with your spouse?
Does your spouse know everything about you or are there things you just don't share?
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01-19-2009, 05:39 PM
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I'd tell ya, but she might read it. 
Seriously, there are a very few things we keep to ourselves, but not much. |
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01-19-2009, 05:45 PM
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We tell each other pretty much everything...but we have actually found that being toooo honest with each other can be a bad thing!!!
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01-19-2009, 05:49 PM
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Absolutely not.
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01-19-2009, 05:53 PM
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Nope. He is on a "need to know" bases. There is not much he needs to know.
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01-19-2009, 05:59 PM
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Hmmm...that's a hard question. Depends on if it's a sin of commission or omission.
I don't think there's much I would not tell her if she asked. However, that doesn't mean that I'd volunteer every detail of my past life before we were married. And since she balances the checkbooks to the penny, I think it would be really hard to keep anything from her anyway.
On the other hand, if someone flirts heavily with me or even makes a pass, I tell her. I would rather that be in the open between us rather than keeping it a secret and allowing it to fester into my fantasy life. That's how people get into trouble down the road.
If somebody confides in me and I give my word to not blab, I can't imagine a need to divulge. Fortunately, she respects that.
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01-19-2009, 06:03 PM
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Yes for my wife and I. It is great not ever having to worry of being caught off guard, or having to remember excuse, or lies even!  |
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01-19-2009, 06:12 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by HookTheBrotherUp
Yes for my wife and I. It is great not ever having to worry of being caught off guard, or having to remember excuse, or lies even! |
Good point. Always tell the truth. That way you don't have to keep up with your lies. I think Mark Twain said that. |
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01-19-2009, 06:13 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Ripley6174
Does your spouse know everything about you or are there things you just don't share?
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everything |
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01-19-2009, 06:18 PM
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my husband and i arent on our first go around (with each other, yes- with others,no) so we made a rule very early. dont ask me any questions you dont want an honest answer to and i wont lie to you. after a few years i did modify that a little- there are times i just tell him he doesnt want to know the answer, and we leave it at that.
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