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View Poll Results: Ladies, have you ever had "relations" w/your husband or SO even though you weren't really
Yes, I have. 27 90.00%
No, I have not, but I would. 1 3.33%
I would never do such a thing! 2 6.67%
Voters: 30. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-23-2009, 12:04 AM
 
Location: mass
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Have you ever had "relations" (trying to keep this PG-13 here), when you weren't in the mood? Perhaps to avoid the cranky, whiny, crabby, "lack-a-nookie" behavior on your spouses part?

I pretty much know plenty of women, if not almost every woman I know, that have done this at some point or do it on occasion, but it has come to light that some women are adamantly against this?

So, I am taking a poll here. (if I can get this poll thing figured out, if I don't get the poll up, feel free to just say yes or no)
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Old 01-23-2009, 12:14 AM
 
Location: Arkansas
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YES! Who hasn't? I mean, not that I feel obligated just because I'm married, but there was a time after my son was born that it just really took me a little bit to get back into the swing of things and there were times that I really did not want to, but in a way felt like I needed to in order to get back to some normal routine and normal want and drive again.

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Old 01-23-2009, 12:43 AM
 
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It's still NEVER.
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Old 01-23-2009, 07:02 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania (NW)
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Yes many times.

I also felt the obligation.
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Old 01-23-2009, 07:43 AM
 
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Totally - and I'm always well into the mood by half time!!
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Old 01-23-2009, 07:57 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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YES! Who hasn't?
Yeah, really...
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Old 01-23-2009, 08:04 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Wow one never.
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Old 01-23-2009, 08:07 AM
 
Location: SC
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In a year and a half - there has not been one time I have not been in the mood to be with him. All he has to do is kiss me and its on.......
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Old 01-23-2009, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Where the sun likes to shine!!
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Yes I have and about 5 minutes into it I "am" in the mood. Then I wonder "what was I thinking?" I would never and have never turned my husband down. His happiness starts and stays at home.
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Old 01-23-2009, 08:42 AM
 
Location: Indiana
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I have and always felt it was something I should do. But on the other note I would want he to do it for me as well. I can see how men can get edgy if they don't have sex regular..I get cranky when I don't get it too.
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