How many have had sex with someone within an hour of meeting them??? (date, man)

[Capt. Dan]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Hey, whatever floats your boat... Nasty to you; fun and exciting to others. That doesn't mean it happens often or we have indiscriminating tastes. To the contrary - there are so few people worth doing it with that coming across one is an overwhelming rarity. I've no need for games and counting of "dates" and no need to deny myself should it happen. To each his own.

Oh, and yes, the choice of words does matter.

In her fantastic book, "Fear of Flying" Erica Jong does a stranger on the train. She refers to this as a "zipless f**k." And I believe it does happens more than people think. Most people like a little danger in thier life from time to time.

[Jackyfrost01]

I got close once, but I didn't feel right at the last second. I want to know someone a little first. Making out is fine, but sex is big (to me). They got very offended and took it personally. I tried to move slow, but no dice.

[coffeeaholic]

I have seen some guys in my lifetime that I would have loved to have thrown down - no questions asked... but in reality - to have a few minutes of polite conversation & then he is in your mouth..??? I didn't ask her if he asked her to or if they just started grabbing each other or what?? I dont have the details, but 1 hr is not enough time for me to decide if he is worthy or not....

[dave nz]

I think some people who do this, or have done this and the frequency aren't going to admit to it on a public forum with mainly strangers. Its something u tell your best friends thats about it. IMO it is very common, esp in the 16-30 age bracket.

[CESpeed]

Originally Posted by moonpieheaven

I have a friend who just told me that she was at work & met this guy (a contractor called in) and within an hour or so of meeting him, gave him oral sex. Are you kidding me? I gave her the whole spill about you dont know him, where he has been, if has diseases, etc... and all she could say was I know, but he was so freakin hot! She is younger than I am but come on - are people THAT free with sex???

Do you know anyone who has done this, or have you? It just blew my mind.... (maybe I am older than I thought)

This seems to be the standard today and I could never abuse myself this way. I actually have self-respect and know that I have better value than this. But guy's know this stuff happens so women like me who demand more from a guy than a sexual experience are left out in the cold.

Today's dating choice: Be a ***** or be alone.

[ImCurlybelle]

It usually takes me a few cocktails, and a few hours to warm up and get frisky. Of course, he's got to a real charmer. haa !

[dave nz]

Originally Posted by CESpeed

This seems to be the standard today and I could never abuse myself this way. I actually have self-respect and know that I have better value than this. But guy's know this stuff happens so women like me who demand more from a guy than a sexual experience are left out in the cold.

Today's dating choice: Be a ***** or be alone.

Its all about quick thrills and fun (who doesn't enjoy that) and its both of those.

[Capt. Dan]

Originally Posted by CESpeed

This seems to be the standard today and I could never abuse myself this way. I actually have self-respect and know that I have better value than this. But guy's know this stuff happens so women like me who demand more from a guy than a sexual experience are left out in the cold.

Today's dating choice: Be a ***** or be alone.

There are times in peoples lives when they arent looking for love. Theyre looking for "lovin." What you consider abuse some may consider a thrill. To each thier own I suppose.

[tuteishungry]

Originally Posted by Capt. Dan

There are times in peoples lives when they arent looking for love. Theyre looking for "lovin." What you consider abuse some may consider a thrill. To each thier own I suppose.

Yup. Its not Mr. Right, it's Mr. Right NOW!

[himain]

Not one hour but several...