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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:14 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Blazer, I dont know much about how a woman's body changes with age, and actually the oldest woman I ever had sex with was 37 years old, but I do know from some research something that could help you.

My passion is eastern thought and philosophy and remember there being several schools of Taoist thought dating back a couple thousand years who specialized in this very thing. What they basically found discovered is not to stress importance of orgasms (especially for the male) and says that physical and mental well being revolves around the aspect in harmony of Yin and Yang = Yin/female and Yang/male. They say that females (and males) who chase the orgasm part never truly achieve the desired mental/physical/spiritual goals of what they called the "Tao of Love". They also stress that the most important part is the "union" between male and female that will help with both parties Mental health - which is what youre looking for.

There are several good books on this that you can find in the Eastern Thought and Eastern Philosophy sections in your local library or bookstore. Hope this helps.
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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:15 PM
 
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I would think organisms can give a glow at any age. It's another matter you can catch those rascals without anybody's help. It's the closeness and intimacy, not the technicalities, that contribute to good emotional health IMO.
OK, so the "closeness & intimacy" can add to one's emotional health? What about pysical health as well?
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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:16 PM
 
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I could elaborate but would go on longer than the "curvy woman" thread.
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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:17 PM
 
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Blazer, I dont know much about how a woman's body changes with age, and actually the oldest woman I ever had sex with was 37 years old, but I do know from some research something that could help you.

My passion is eastern thought and philosophy and remember there being several schools of Taoist thought dating back a couple thousand years who specialized in this very thing. What they basically found discovered is not to stress importance of orgasms (especially for the male) and says that physical and mental well being revolves around the aspect in harmony of Yin and Yang = Yin/female and Yang/male. They say that females (and males) who chase the orgasm part never truly achieve the desired mental/physical/spiritual goals of what they called the "Tao of Love". They also stress that the most important part is the "union" between male and female that will help with both parties Mental health - which is what youre looking for.

There are several good books on this that you can find in the Eastern Thought and Eastern Philosophy sections in your local library or bookstore. Hope this helps.

Fascinating thoughts.

Makes good sense, too.
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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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OK, so the "closeness & intimacy" can add to one's emotional health? What about pysical health as well?
It might help physical health as well. Many diseases ARE psychosomatic. I firmly believe stress causes most of our pains, aches, and even more serious diseases.

You can tell if people are loved by the way they look and act!
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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Land of 10000 Lakes +
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OK, let me put it this way...

If a woman is in her late 40's to late 60's and eats well, excercises, keeps her intellect stimulated, is involved with some sort of spiritual thing... would having regular sex & orgasims add anything at all to her health (physical, emotional, spiritual)? Or, is it a complete nuetral thing?
Don't think it would add to her health. Many people are healthy using all of the above and don't necessarily have sex.
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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:21 PM
 
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It might help physical health as well. Many diseases ARE psychosomatic. I firmly believe stress causes most of our pains, aches, and even more serious diseases.

You can tell if people are loved by the way they look and act!

OK, I think I'm getting the answer I was curious about.

My Blazer game is about to start, so thanks to all!
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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:26 PM
 
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OK, let me put it this way...

If a woman is in her late 40's to late 60's and eats well, excercises, keeps her intellect stimulated, is involved with some sort of spiritual thing... would having regular sex & orgasims add anything at all to her health (physical, emotional, spiritual)? Or, is it a complete nuetral thing?
I don't think it adds anything to anyone's physical health - I don't see how it can. Perhaps emotional health, maybe that one might get a boost. When I'm not in a relationship, I take care of my own needs...and I expect most women would, just as a man would. So again, I don't see that "regular sex and orgasms" are all you think it might be, relative to someone's health. Just my opinion though.
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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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Studies have regularly shown that those with more active sex lives are healthier; now that could probably be turned around to simply state that healthy people have sex more often than unhealthy people, which would certainly make sense. Which came first, the chicken or the egg?

Menopause is a time of hormonal turmoil. Some women experience lower libidos, some higher, and some stay about the same. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that Mrs. Newk falls into the second category.
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Unread 01-26-2009, 08:29 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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OK, so the "closeness & intimacy" can add to one's emotional health? What about physical health as well?
For most women "closeness & intimacy" are far more important than the physical act of sex itself. Staying physically healthy will keep a person able to engage in sexual activity later in their life cycle. Any woman who wants to stay sexually active longer should keep careful watch of her bone density. Brittle bones and sex are not a good combination.
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