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View Poll Results: Is self-satisfaction cheating?
Yes 3 3.00%
No 94 94.00%
I'm not sure 3 3.00%
Voters: 100. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-27-2009, 09:28 AM
 
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Had to think about this one, but the only way I might consider it cheating was if he was holding a photo of his ex-girlfriend at the time.
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Old 01-27-2009, 09:40 AM
 
Location: TX
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IMO, cheating involves another person, not you and you alone. I think if it's interfering with your normal relations, or it becomes a substitute for normal relations (whatever normal may be for you), then it's a problem. But it still isn't cheating.
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Old 01-27-2009, 09:45 AM
 
Location: Des Moines, IA
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She wants to be the one to take care of all my "needs."
She can understand why I would want to do it (we don't live together) but she would much rather be the one to "take care" of me.

Then tell her to put up or shut up and see how long that lasts for her.
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Old 01-27-2009, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Right here, see??
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I would have to seriously question the mental stability of someone who was jealous of a hand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I made the big mistake of taking a huge swig of root beer as I read this post, I think I inhaled half of it and fell off my chair laughing!
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Old 01-27-2009, 10:54 AM
 
Location: New England
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Anyone who thinks self-satisfaction is cheating is selfish. If your SO really feels that way about it, then they need to step it up.

Tell your girlfriend to get a vibrator and she'll be buzzing to a different tune.
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Old 01-27-2009, 11:09 AM
 
Location: los angeles, ca
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Tell your girlfriend to get a vibrator and she'll be buzzing to a different tune.
nice one!
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Old 01-27-2009, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Orlando
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Hit each other before either gets the chance... make it your goal to bang the other so they dont have the energy... there will be some fun there.. I have the urge daily , with or without sex...
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Old 01-27-2009, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Beautiful New England
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But another question is it a sin?
Who knows and who cares? Let's keep the religious junk in the religion forum.
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Old 01-27-2009, 01:45 PM
 
Location: Chicago, Illinois
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not 1 vote for yes. lol, i love this forum.
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Old 01-27-2009, 01:49 PM
 
Location: Pelion, South Carolina/orig. from Cape May, NJ
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I wouldn't consider it cheating unless he did it while thinking of an ex-GF/porn star/coworker, etc. then it'd be cheating in his mind, like I wasn't satisfying him so he has to fantasize about other women. That'd be upsetting.
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