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IMO, cheating involves another person, not you and you alone. I think if it's interfering with your normal relations, or it becomes a substitute for normal relations (whatever normal may be for you), then it's a problem. But it still isn't cheating.
She wants to be the one to take care of all my "needs."
She can understand why I would want to do it (we don't live together) but she would much rather be the one to "take care" of me.
Then tell her to put up or shut up and see how long that lasts for her.
Hit each other before either gets the chance... make it your goal to bang the other so they dont have the energy... there will be some fun there.. I have the urge daily , with or without sex...
Location: Pelion, South Carolina/orig. from Cape May, NJ
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I wouldn't consider it cheating unless he did it while thinking of an ex-GF/porn star/coworker, etc. then it'd be cheating in his mind, like I wasn't satisfying him so he has to fantasize about other women. That'd be upsetting.
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