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Yes I did a few times. Before my wife and I got married I worked with a pretty girl who told me straight up she wanted me in bed. I said no. Second lady was a girl I dated twice and wanted to know more about her before banging her boots. She seemed so unlike someone who would jump into bed with a guy she met only twice before. I was waiting to nail her on the third date. Man was she pissed. I never did see her underwear label. Lastly was a woman I worked with six months after getting married. She sent her son away for the weekend with his father and invited me over for a drink and a screw. I went home to my wife.
Many times. For all kinds of reasons. I have turned down coworkers. ladies that I thought were too drunk to make a rational decision. ladies that I thought may be lying about thier age. I've turned down buddies wives or g/f. I've turned down female patients who were in my care. And believe it or not--I once turned down a horny NUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sheesh, that's just a recipe for getting rid of most men , even though I'm noticing lately the Murphy laws always work. It seems like most men I come across want children.
My husband is a University professor and is hit on by his female students with some frequency. This has been going on for 20 years and he always turns them down. Why would anyone risk their livelihood for a few moments of pleasure? Those who are are so reckless must have almost no self-control.
Plenty of men turn down sex all the time for many reasons.
Happens occasionally to me. You have to say no in a politically correct way since woman look at this as a severe form of rejection. A girl left me over this in my younger years! I usually say "I have to get up early in the morning" or there's too much junk in the back seat of my car!" and all is good
Yes, multiple times. The reason I turn it down is because I don't know the person's sexual health. If I'm in a relationship, I'll never turn down sex from my girlfriend. Otherwise, the answer is no.
Yes, I have, lots and lots of times. Let me break it down by stages of life:
SINGLE
1. "I'm dating someone."
2. She was just too weird for words. I didn't want my car keyed after it inevitably didn't work out
3. "Here? In the library?"
4. "When I said I don't date co-workers, I also meant I don't screw them either"
5. Suspicious looking sores
6. Just not that attractive
MARRIED
1. "I'm flattered, but I'm married"
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