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Old 01-27-2009, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Since everyone else is saying "yes", I'm going to say, "I think so. I'm not sure I remember".
Now, now... you can admit not turning anybody down!
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Old 01-27-2009, 04:42 PM
 
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I did this weekend, girl was in shock, she was like, "nobody has ever turned me down" I was like I ain't trying to make history here, ill see you later, she was calling me all day yesterday!

I can understand that "girl was in shock" since the guys they usually are attracted to are often only interested in sex. I've never wanted to use anyone and have done this several times. I think it gets in the way of the positive aspects in the initial development of a relationship.

I once asked a women "I hope you don't think this is the only way I'd be attracted to you?" I think that either she took this the wrong way or was only comfortable in using this to control things.

At least, if the relationship goes nowhere, I can look in the mirror and say, I wasn't using her. However, I doubt this is ever appreciated. If my male acquaintances ever found this out, I'd probably lose the respect of most of them. Sad.
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Old 01-27-2009, 04:56 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Yes a number of times. Maybe I'm stupid, but a couple situations tend to pop up. Either she is doing something to turn me off (like smoking, or talking like she has IQ of 15 yr old) or the situation is something I'm aware enough to regret later (married work colleague, friends 'girlfriend', female friend whose had a few to many). Damn conscienece.
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Old 01-27-2009, 05:12 PM
 
Location: San Fernando Valley, CA
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Those kind of women make the best lovers.
young 17 year old women with big saggy boobies that look like pancakes??? I almost wanted to cry......thank goodness I haven't run into a set since.
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Old 01-27-2009, 05:19 PM
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Now, now... you can admit not turning anybody down!
Somehow I knew you'd be there to help me get in deeper (Freudian double entendre intended).
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Old 01-27-2009, 05:29 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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It does sound unbelievable! In LK's case it was probably somebody skinny. Opti, what's your excuse? Married at the time?

Yes. I was offered lots of times during my marriage.

And turned down my own wife occasionally......Yes Sierra...men do get headaches!

And I've had to turn down lovers occasionally, recently. Mostly due to advanced age! The girls wanted to when I woke up this morning, yes I still hang out over at their apartment, and I had to go to work! And tonight's Mentalist night so I'll probably be hanging out with them again, tonight. So hand me the spinach! Chomp chomp...I yam what I yam! A ca ca ca ca
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Old 01-27-2009, 05:29 PM
 
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I've turned dudes down for sex all the time.
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Old 01-27-2009, 05:34 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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I've turned dudes down for sex all the time.
But not being willing "to pay that much" isn't really "turning down"

Ohhhh ho ho ho...I kill me!

Just kidding!
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Old 01-27-2009, 05:43 PM
 
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What are you talking about?

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But not being willing "to pay that much" isn't really "turning down"

Ohhhh ho ho ho...I kill me!

Just kidding!
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Old 01-27-2009, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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Yes I did a few times. Before my wife and I got married I worked with a pretty girl who told me straight up she wanted me in bed. I said no. Second lady was a girl I dated twice and wanted to know more about her before banging her boots. She seemed so unlike someone who would jump into bed with a guy she met only twice before. I was waiting to nail her on the third date. Man was she pissed. I never did see her underwear label. Lastly was a woman I worked with six months after getting married. She sent her son away for the weekend with his father and invited me over for a drink and a screw. I went home to my wife.
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