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I don't know why I am wondering this but here goes...
There are a lot of ladies out there who make their living selling sexual favors. There must be even more ladies out there who are retired from this line of work (too old, wanted out, changed career, got married, health reasons, etc. etc.).
Given the logical stigma that goes with being a hooker, these ladies would be wise to keep it a secret from their friends and family-- but do you think many of them tell their husbands??? Seriously, there must be TONS of men out there married to women who have seen more sausage than a german butcher.
I'd say this type of secrets ALWAYS surface. IMO it'd be a lot better and more practical to fess up to the guy before marriage. Why put yourself through a divorce...
Everyone has skeletons in their closet. Just be upfront and honest. Yes alot easier said than done. But its far better he finds out upfront than later on, its inevitable he will find it out eventually.
Let's face it, when she knows 164 sexual positions and she's 19 I think the cat's out of the bag.
164? My wife got a book with 101 or something like that. We were willing participants but not able ones. Let me just say, WHEW!
I'd be inclined to think that most former ladies of the night would mention it before marriage. I'd bet they'd whittle down their success with it or the length of time engaged in the business, but to not mention it would be holding back quite a secret. I've told my wife and my late wife that I didn't care if they were hookers before we met, nothing needed to be held back or talked about. (Neither admitted to being hookers or lawyers.) But if I found out from another source after the wedding, I think I'd be a little ticked that I hadn't been told.
I don't know why I am wondering this but here goes...
There are a lot of ladies out there who make their living selling sexual favors. There must be even more ladies out there who are retired from this line of work (too old, wanted out, changed career, got married, health reasons, etc. etc.).
Given the logical stigma that goes with being a hooker, these ladies would be wise to keep it a secret from their friends and family-- but do you think many of them tell their husbands??? Seriously, there must be TONS of men out there married to women who have seen more sausage than a german butcher.
What say you?
Dont' forget there's also guys selling themselves too. There must also be a ton of men who haven't confessed up to the women they've done. Why should it be any different what women tell their husbands than what men tell? I think it all depends on how open you want to be and how much you want to just blank out. I mean, we all make mistakes that we wish to forget. There's some things in a person's past that they may regret having done and want to forget about it. Some feel a confession washes it away, so why bring it up?
Dont' forget there's also guys selling themselves too. There must also be a ton of men who haven't confessed up to the women they've done. Why should it be any different what women tell their husbands than what men tell? I think it all depends on how open you want to be and how much you want to just blank out. I mean, we all make mistakes that we wish to forget. There's some things in a person's past that they may regret having done and want to forget about it. Some feel a confession washes it away, so why bring it up?
Because its likely to go down like a ton of bricks when the partner finds out. We aren't talking about a casual relationship here or a fling.
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My wife got a book with 101 or something like that. We were willing participants but not able ones. Let me just say, WHEW! 
I've no need to hang from the ceiling, either.
