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Old 06-26-2009, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Myrtle Beach, SC
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Where can you find male pen pals who are married but dont want to have an affair? I am married and want a male to chat with but just chatting and innocent flirting. Any good ideas or website???

Lonely
Is this a joke? I mean come on...
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Old 06-26-2009, 09:20 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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Where can you find male pen pals who are married but dont want to have an affair? I am married and want a male to chat with but just chatting and innocent flirting. Any good ideas or website???

Lonely

You say you are married and want a married pen pal guy friend for innocent flirting? What exactly is that all about? Not a nice thing to do you think?
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Old 06-27-2009, 12:10 AM
 
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Girl, you send any prisoner 20 bucks and they'll tell you that you rock their world. They'll even send you a drawing of you. Those guys get preety artistic in there.
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Old 06-27-2009, 12:28 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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believe me..you don't want to go there. only leads to heartbreak for somebody.
My thoughts exactly. And your motives (OP) are suspect with your comment about flirting. I'd examine you relationship with your SO. Many times a person is lonely because they aren't well-matched. If you are going to be involved in such risky behavior that will more than likely lead you into an affair anyway, why not divorce now?
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Old 07-21-2010, 06:41 AM
 
Location: Nowhere Land.
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We are all pen pals.
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Old 07-21-2010, 08:43 AM
 
Location: Emerald Coast, FL
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Google pen pal websites. There are plenty.

Looking for a pen pal for flirting may be a slippery slope. Aside from that caveat, I've had pen pals since I was a teenager and snail mail was the only option. Things got far more interesting with the internet, of course. During the last 15 years, I've had many international penpals, and am still in contact with a few of those made 15 years ago. Many, I've met over the years, too. It has been a very rewarding experience to connect with people from other cultures. Some pen pals have been from the US and Canada, as well, and a few of those have become good friends over the years, both online and in person.

And yes, my wife is aware of all these contacts, is completely okay with it, and has met many of them with me. Most of my pen pals are female, too. One of the most recent lives nearby and is very into dancing, like we are. We've gone dancing together a few times, though she usually brings her boyfriend along, and I always bring my wife.

So, pen pals can be a fun and innocent hobby, but I guess it depends on your intentions, AND of course it depends on the pen pal's as well. I think most men are likely to be hoping for something more than a platonic, intellectual connection!
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Old 05-25-2011, 09:28 AM
 
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Is this a joke? I mean come on...
Hi, Im Scott. I will write to you. I am married too. Want to flirt?
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Old 07-10-2012, 11:25 AM
 
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I don't know why you'd find this strange I'm married and want to write to women who are married too? You guys should come down on her like this when you guys flirt with the office girls or Starbuck ladies. Smiling and winking.

Michael
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Old 07-10-2012, 11:31 AM
 
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I'd like to find a telegraph pal.
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Old 08-16-2012, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Huntsville
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Default c'mon people

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Where can you find male pen pals who are married but dont want to have an affair? I am married and want a male to chat with but just chatting and innocent flirting. Any good ideas or website???

Lonely
Hi. I'm rather dismayed by those who took the time to respond to your request and were very critical of it. I understand their concerns and they do make some valid points, however, if you are a responsible person why could you not simply chat with another human being and enjoy a friendship even if it is only on-line. Maybe some people have little or no self control, but not everyone has a hidden agenda. If you wish to chat with someone, I will be glad to oblige.
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