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Old 02-03-2009, 11:07 PM
 
Location: McKinleyville, California
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I have been pen pals with my ex girlfriend from junior high. She moved across the continent. We have been writing ever since. I have been with the same spouse for thirty years and she is on her second husband, the one that she cheated with on her first husband. We now chat via email. I am also in recent contact with a girlfriend from my elementary school years. She found me via class mates. I have contacted several other class mates of my high school and we are planning on meeting at our up coming 30th reunion. I found my senior class girlfriend and emailed her too. I am in contact with my male class mates too. None of my email contacts are flirtatious, just friends writing friends. My longest pen pal contact is going on 34 years. My Mom carried on a pen pal relationship for 59 years and for the past nine years since my mom passed, I have been sending sending christmas cards to my moms contacts. The one friend of my Moms goes back to when they were 10 years old. Mine goes back to when I was 15.
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Old 02-04-2009, 12:05 AM
 
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Uh you really shouldn't be flirting with married men, even if it's "innocent". Why are you even looking for that? You're asking for trouble, and frankly, it's just trashy.
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Old 06-23-2009, 11:23 AM
 
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I love my female pen pals, but have actually flirted with next to none. I do enjoy hte friendship, and have never cheated on my wife, after 21 years.

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Old 06-23-2009, 11:30 AM
 
Location: South Carolina
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You know you are just asking for trouble right ? what if their wives found out and sought you out ? I had a neighbor that was seeing a married man well the wife found out where she lived and she shot her dead right outside our door on the steps to the apts where we were living . So not a good idea . why cant you just have female pen pals ? I have a pen pal whom lives in sweeden and she has been my pen pal for many years . I dont understand the kind of pen pal you want and to me that aint a pen pal that is something far more intimate . sorry but you are asking for trouble .
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Old 06-23-2009, 09:37 PM
 
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believe me..you don't want to go there. only leads to heartbreak for somebody.
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Old 06-23-2009, 11:48 PM
 
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Prison...
You're too quick for me!

All I can add is that she should try club fed. Dennis Kozlowski, Bernie Ebbers and Conrad Black could make good pen pals and their marital status is a matter of public record.

If they are busy, there are many more, lesser-known swindlers and with luck, the banking scams should bring in a lot more needing pen pals.

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Old 06-24-2009, 01:23 AM
 
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Where can you find male pen pals who are married but dont want to have an affair? I am married and want a male to chat with but just chatting and innocent flirting. Any good ideas or website???

Lonely

I was gonna say a few names from CD, but then I realized that they would probably show up at your doorstep and all hell would break loose.
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Old 06-26-2009, 03:12 PM
 
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I was gonna say a few names from CD, but then I realized that they would probably show up at your doorstep and all hell would break loose.
Yeah. Killer gets out in 2021. Of course, you could buy a new computer by then......................

or reformat your hard drive.
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Old 06-26-2009, 05:08 PM
 
Location: Houston, Texas
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Geez the OP has not been back since her post here long long time ago. I wonder if she found that pen pal who swept her off her feet and sailed into the wild blue yonder.
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Old 06-26-2009, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Prison...
She may have something here.....

Ya` know....why don`t you try pen paling with your spouse?
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