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I have been pen pals with my ex girlfriend from junior high. She moved across the continent. We have been writing ever since. I have been with the same spouse for thirty years and she is on her second husband, the one that she cheated with on her first husband. We now chat via email. I am also in recent contact with a girlfriend from my elementary school years. She found me via class mates. I have contacted several other class mates of my high school and we are planning on meeting at our up coming 30th reunion. I found my senior class girlfriend and emailed her too. I am in contact with my male class mates too. None of my email contacts are flirtatious, just friends writing friends. My longest pen pal contact is going on 34 years. My Mom carried on a pen pal relationship for 59 years and for the past nine years since my mom passed, I have been sending sending christmas cards to my moms contacts. The one friend of my Moms goes back to when they were 10 years old. Mine goes back to when I was 15.
Uh you really shouldn't be flirting with married men, even if it's "innocent". Why are you even looking for that? You're asking for trouble, and frankly, it's just trashy.
You know you are just asking for trouble right ? what if their wives found out and sought you out ? I had a neighbor that was seeing a married man well the wife found out where she lived and she shot her dead right outside our door on the steps to the apts where we were living . So not a good idea . why cant you just have female pen pals ? I have a pen pal whom lives in sweeden and she has been my pen pal for many years . I dont understand the kind of pen pal you want and to me that aint a pen pal that is something far more intimate . sorry but you are asking for trouble .
All I can add is that she should try club fed. Dennis Kozlowski, Bernie Ebbers and Conrad Black could make good pen pals and their marital status is a matter of public record.
If they are busy, there are many more, lesser-known swindlers and with luck, the banking scams should bring in a lot more needing pen pals.
Last edited by NotARedneck; 06-24-2009 at 12:25 AM..
Where can you find male pen pals who are married but dont want to have an affair? I am married and want a male to chat with but just chatting and innocent flirting. Any good ideas or website???
Lonely
I was gonna say a few names from CD, but then I realized that they would probably show up at your doorstep and all hell would break loose.
Geez the OP has not been back since her post here long long time ago. I wonder if she found that pen pal who swept her off her feet and sailed into the wild blue yonder.
Ya` know....why don`t you try pen paling with your spouse?
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