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Old 02-04-2009, 12:02 PM
 
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the way to find out if she wants to see you again
is to ask her and see if she says "yes" or "no"

regarding whether one-night stands should stay that way, or can ever lead to anything, my experience has been that a lot of people "try" to make it into something more that losts longer and it peters out (ha ha) after a few months.

However I know one person who had a one -night stand that turned into a 14 year marriage, and even though they are no longer married, are still "best friends" 30 years later. They talk every day. Both have remarried.
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Old 02-04-2009, 12:05 PM
 
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Heck, no! Many of those that should've stayed this way turn into long-term trouble, marriage included.
LMAO!!!!
post of the week!!!
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Old 02-04-2009, 12:07 PM
 
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She is probably not interested.

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Old 02-04-2009, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Did you leave a number? Didn't you write it on the bathroom mirror?
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Old 02-04-2009, 11:32 PM
 
Location: #
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Meet her again. If you get nervous, I say hurl. If you blow chunks and she comes back, she's yours. If you spew and she bolts, then it was never meant to be.
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Old 02-05-2009, 12:54 AM
 
Location: The O.C.--Soon, ATL
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Go for it. That way you won't have any regrets or "what ifs" later. And she may have been thinking the same thing afterwards...is this only a one night stand or do I dare hope he might want to see me again?
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Old 02-05-2009, 05:43 AM
 
Location: Orlando
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Hubby and I are going for world's longest one night stand.....it's still going after 20+ years.

Call her!
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Old 02-05-2009, 05:23 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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A one night stand is only a one night stand if either one of you don't want to get together again. Call her!
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Old 02-05-2009, 05:30 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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After superbowl (4 in the morning here in sweden) I hooked up with a girl who was a couple of years older than myself (im 19 shes in her mid twenties) and we went to her place. The thing is we had kinda oposite roles...she did the drink buying for me, and then payed the cab (the gentleman in me was a bit ashamed). The day after I stayed at her place until the evening and we were kissing until the very second I went out of her door...

Now the question is; Is it a huge leap to think she might wanna see me again?
I'd really like to see her again but is a one night thing suposed to stay as such?
I've got a sort of a strange one night stand story. I hooked up with someone I met at a night club.(I hate the phrase hooked up BTW). Anyway we got together. As I was driving her home at some ungodly hour she confesses to me that she's getting married in a couple of weeks. I'm like OK, don't know what I supposed to do with that gem of info.

Later that same day I went to a flower shop to visit a friend that worked there and guess who was there picking out flowers for her wedding with her mother.

Talk about an awkward situation.
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