In love with wifes friend (how to, marriages, children, advice)
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Wow, actually insulting and came here for help. The insults here are incredible. Thanks everyone for your input. I am a sad guy because of this situation . I came here for opinions or suggestions that may have helped me thru this. I guess I came to the wrong place. Thanks for some of your advice.
What? We're supposed to pat you on the back and condone what you're doing? You're sneaky and cannot be trusted. You claim to love your kids, but you are hurting them by cheating on their mother! What kind of love is that?! You have to realize your kids, when they are old enough to understand what's going on, will have very little respect for you. You are not a man, but a coward, a cheat and a sneak. Same goes for your girlfriend.
what I want to know is how you think that you are going to have a good life with this woman. If the two of you are perfectly content on fooling around on your S.O. Just remember what goes around comes around. the two of you would always be wondering if the other one is stepping out and getting it somewhere else. the two of you would have serious trust issues. my suggestion is to go to marriage counceling and try to salvage what you can of your marriage if your wife wants to try and make things work. but who could blame her if she didn't.
I will not tell you what you want to hear and neither will the people on any of these forums because we all have opinions and we will tell you where the bear sh*ts in the woods.
she has beenmarried for !7 years and me 11. NEVER HAVE EITHER OF US CHEATED BEFORE.
Yes my Gf told her husband and he very upset but told her she has to do what she needs to do and be happy. Their relationship was similiar to mine. We were at a bar on Dec 26th and her brother noticed her and I were just getting along goos smiling and happy. She got nervous and told her husband , I told my wife with the thinking that they would take it easier if we told them as opposed to others telling them.
Well, if your respective spouses are cool with this situation, then why don't the pair of you just leave your homes and move in together? I don't see what the problem is - or why you have to sneak around. I see nothing prohibiting either of you from divorcing your spouses so you can be together.
What? We're supposed to pat you on the back and condone what you're doing? You're sneaky and cannot be trusted. You claim to love your kids, but you are hurting them by cheating on their mother! What kind of love is that?! You have to realize your kids, when they are old enough to understand what's going on, will have very little respect for you. You are not a man, but a coward, a cheat and a sneak. Same goes for your girlfriend.
Alright thanks everyone. Sounds liek I need to get rid of my girlfriend. Someone I love and feel so compatable with and am attracted to. I should work with my wife who I am not attracted to who dont even want to sleep in same bed as me and shows me no affection cause she blames it on her thyroid loss medication and her molestation as a child. I do love my children very much and Ithink in time they would understand. They know my GF very well over the years and definately have a liking to her. So I should try to rekindle what I really cant and dont have which is love. Stay in a loveless marriage could be more damaging to a child. Hearing yelling all the time. I want them to see me happy, with someone I love and can talk to. Either way my kids will suffer. My kids are the most important thing to me. I fell in love I know its wrong but it happened.
Alright thanks everyone. Sounds liek I need to get rid of my girlfriend. Someone I love and feel so compatable with and am attracted to. I should work with my wife who I am not attracted to who dont even want to sleep in same bed as me and shows me no affection cause she blames it on her thyroid loss medication and her molestation as a child. I do love my children very much and Ithink in time they would understand. They know my GF very well over the years and definately have a liking to her. So I should try to rekindle what I really cant and dont have which is love. Stay in a loveless marriage could be more damaging to a child. Hearing yelling all the time. I want them to see me happy, with someone I love and can talk to. Either way my kids will suffer. My kids are the most important thing to me. I fell in love I know its wrong but it happened.
Nobody's telling you to stay in a loveless marriage. If you feel that strongly about your girlfriend - then LEAVE! Move out of your wife's house and start a life with your girlfriend. Girlfriend also needs to move out of her husband's house! Don't try to play that pity card with us. We're telling you what you need to do - but you don't want to hear it. It's not likely you are going to find someone who agrees you are doing the right thing by living a lie - living in your wife's home and sneaking around sleeping with another man's wife.
If your kids are as important to you as you say they are, then you need to do what is right.
Be a man. Grow some huevos. Teach your kids to fight thru problems not run from them. Oh. Never mind. Your wife will be lucky to be rid of a man who cant even watch his kids without bangin the neighbor. Geesh!
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You have to realize your kids, when they are old enough to understand what's going on, will have very little respect for you. You are not a man, but a coward, a cheat and a sneak. Same goes for your girlfriend. 
