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Unread 02-08-2009, 06:54 AM
 
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Default this brings to mind

the Dan Fogelberg holiday hit song "Same Old Lang Syne" where he describes his ex telling him "she said she married her an architect who kept her warm and safe and dry, she would have liked to say she loved the man but she didn't like to lie"
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Unread 02-08-2009, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Arkansas
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Not saying youd cheat but how often do you daydream or think about other attrative men or men you see on the street?

Men always getthe bad rep for looking at women and desiring other women while in relationships but arent women the same?

Allot of times theyll just do it in a slicker way like constantly talking about an actor or some entertainer on tv they have a cursh on..
Everyday John Cusack and I meet up! LOL!
I think that there are thoughts that cross my mind everyday. but they don't always have to do with other men. Often times when I daydream, I think of my hubby!!!
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Unread 03-02-2011, 04:13 AM
 
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every 10 seconds...I m married....Its not just 1 man...few,,,u could say.
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Unread 03-02-2011, 04:22 AM
 
Location: Tower of Heaven
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Like men, but they're better and well trained
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Unread 03-02-2011, 04:36 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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every 10 seconds...I m married....Its not just 1 man...few,,,u could say.
Every 10 seconds?? I suggest you contact the Guinness book of world records.
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Unread 03-02-2011, 05:48 AM
 
Location: in your dreams
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I definitely notice if a guy looks good...but that's about it. I don't actually go out of my way to notice other men.

Strangely (and luckily) enough, I fantasize about my current bf.

Which is good news for me, it means I am finally in a healthy and satisfying relationship. haha.
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Unread 03-02-2011, 07:52 AM
 
Location: colorado
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Not saying youd cheat but how often do you daydream or think about other attrative men or men you see on the street?

Men always getthe bad rep for looking at women and desiring other women while in relationships but arent women the same?

Allot of times theyll just do it in a slicker way like constantly talking about an actor or some entertainer on tv they have a cursh on..

I enjoy looking at good looking men..but I wont break my neck and disrespect my boyfriend, I dont find nothing wrong with him looking at a beautiful woman, he dont disrespect me, I dont fantasize about having sex with other men but appreciate their beauty,
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Unread 03-02-2011, 08:23 AM
 
Location: NC
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i see good looking guys all the time.

good lord, im married, not blind
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Unread 03-02-2011, 08:28 AM
 
Location: NC
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I'll notice a guy is attractive, but no, I don't fantasize. I honestly can't think of the last time I fantasized about doing something with a man who was not my husband.
We think alike!

I can appreicate good looks but I can't fantasize about taking a man to bed that I don't know. Much of the attraction is personality in order for that to happen.
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Unread 03-02-2011, 08:51 AM
 
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Quite often, but I don't disrespect my SO with comments or obvious looking. I have a wandering eye, but I just notice, I don't flirt or pursue what I admired. I keep it to myself, but I do make a mental note to give my boyfriend more attention, because that's where my attention needs to be right now.

The more connected to my boyfriend I feel, the less likely I am to do it.
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