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Old 02-07-2009, 09:26 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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What does it good for, then, if she says she doesn't remember and in fact she does.
Thanks for the advice, anyway!
Maybe becuase she is embarrassed about it or something.
Its a girls way of not wanting to face reality, about what happened. Its called denial.
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Old 02-07-2009, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Northern NH
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Don't make this a huge issue..really it is just sex. I mean just sex..get a grip and take a deep breath and go on with your life
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Old 02-07-2009, 10:30 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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I think you should tell her. If she's in denial or she actually doesn't remember, she should know, if for no other reason than to be more careful when she drinks.
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Old 02-07-2009, 10:59 AM
 
Location: In the woods next to the ocean
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Don't tell her anything.

Get her drunk again and demonstrate.
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Old 02-07-2009, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Oxford, OH
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Well one of the big questions would be were you so drunk that you didn't use protection. Hummm then she sure would have a right to know that. Ask her what she really remembers first and she what she says. I think you have a moral obligation to tell her the truth.
Anyway what is friendship without truth???????
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Old 02-07-2009, 11:14 AM
 
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Hi,

I need help what to do. I had sex with a girl who is a friend of mine... we got too drunk at her place. I phoned her today and she told me that she doesn't remember anything. She asked me to tell her everything what happened when we meet next time.
She has absolutely no idea about what happened and I don't want to spoil our friendship. What should I tell her...? (should I even tell her that we were kissing each other?)

Thanks in advance for any help.
How good was it? If it was good don't tell her, show her.
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Old 02-07-2009, 11:35 AM
 
Location: California
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Does it matter if you do or not? what is the point of telling her? If she doesn't remember then how is is suppose to tell you if she had fun or not? Why don't you just have some fun agan when you meet up with her.
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Old 02-07-2009, 01:08 PM
 
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Hmmm..I bet she remembers it all too well. She wants to hear it from your vantage point. It'll tell her where this is going...or not.
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Old 02-07-2009, 01:10 PM
 
Location: southern california
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lying cheating and getting drunk all go together really well. like an omelette.
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Old 02-07-2009, 01:20 PM
 
Location: occupied east coast
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Consider this.....

If she really was THAT DRUNK... Than you RAPED her.

This is no different than slipping Ruffies into her drink and having your way.

SHAME ON YOU !!!!
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