Older man younger women (married, child, sex, partner)

[C5Aprea]

i like to look at younger woman, but they just dont know how to please me.
But their cute to look at.

I really like prefer the unfuffilled 35 + woman. they are much more eger. They know what they like and want to learn what you like.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

Or the sex? bha ha ha ....

Bah, it's not really funny considering what I hear about the youngins...

[PassTheChocolate]

Originally Posted by David Kennedy

Azoria:

I'm 62..she is 38.

We met five years ago in Perth. The English operate from a different set of rules...much wiser ones.

The biggest issue for me was my aging and her accepting the promise that she could go on with her life when mine became a discomfort to her.

These years have been remarkable. Full of love, life and excitement.
After my first wife died (1985), I didn't not expect to find a common partner or anyone for fullfillment.

We, here in America, consider older folks to be worthless and disposable. That is very foolish.

And as for money? She had hers and still keeps it overseas...I have mine/ours...will certainly not need it eventually and she will.

Karma? It's like most things...what a person makes of it.
She likes to have those little chats, face to face..breath to breath in the most intimate position...We had one of those tonight. Next time, I'll ask about her motives...

Congratulations!

[Grandpa111]

Grandpa in LOVE again....

Well, it's nice to see what others think, but you of course never know until you have walked in another’s shoes. I first married at just 19 to same age lady, we were grandparents at age 42. We had a good marriage for almost 38 years when she died of a brain tumor. We had nine children together ages 38 to 15. Five are married and we will have 15 grandchildren by end of 2009. We are conservative Christians, home school, home church, home birth, real radicals... So where do I find a "LIKE-MINDED" younger life-mate again? Was engaged for 4 days to a 50 year old widow, (with four children 15-22) and she thought I was old. Her family all rejected my serious conservative Christian lifestyle, though she desired it. Now I’m happy she did because;

Well folks, I've already rode one through menopause... we were down to twice a week, from a long diet of once a day for the first 20 years. To be honest, a man really marries for sex, then companionship. But I can really only speak for myself... The question of a much younger wife carries several potential problems and perhaps more.

1) Since I don’t believe in birth control and young single never married ladies rightly also desire to experience motherhood and raise children of their own. This is a point that an older man must answer within himself, if he is still man enough to tackle the lifetime job of raising another batch of children. I decided it would be worth it. At this point I’m actually looking forward to fathering my second family.
2) The couple themselves must be able to weather the looks, distain, etc of society about their large age difference. Since I’ve always been different, my children tell me this will be no problem for me. But it will come from within also. Since my new wife is younger than two of my own daughters and three of my son-in-laws.
3) Sexy Grandma. The young virgin lady as well must accept her position of becoming a grandmother of 13 children by marriage. And that she will not be “A MOTHER” to my children of my first wife, but hopefully become just good friends, that can grow into a love between relatives by marriage… for the benefit of all of us and further the happiness of their father.
4) Well, YES I’m 27 years older than my new bride. Plus she is Asian, so that is not as big of a problem culturally or mentally for her as for us WHITE European Americans.
5) Sure everyone automatically ASS-u-ME-S, she is just a gold digger and or looking for American citizenship and or entrance into the USA and a better way of life. Well, that may be true for many and of course there is nothing wrong with attempting to better one’s lot, you do that don’t you. But I believe my “choice” will be more loyal than one from countries where divorce is a real problem as it is in the USA with a 50% divorce rate (for one’s total life).
6) NO sex until after marriage. Parental consent. We both found all the issues we were looking for in a spouse. We both KNEW what we were looking for, it wasn’t just SEX. It was the total package, starting with Christian values, personality, physical size, appearance, culture, money, everything…
7) FAST, One month of email, then One month of phone and email, short engagement of just a few days followed by full and permanent bonding before God.
8) As for the saying I’ve read on the internet wrote by some woman no doubt, about some old dog chasing a car, wouldn’t know how to drive it if he caught it. Let me tell you something. For the first three months of honeymoon, this old dog surprised himself, because I was hotter than I was when I was 18. And 3X was the day’s norm. Was she happy? There is nothing like a virgin willing to become an orgasm queen, lead by an experienced lover. Knowledge and experience go a long way in satisfying a lady. Let me tell you, dogs can’t drive cars anyway and I wouldn’t want to marry a car or have sex with one. My oldest daughter once told me, all I needed was a sex machine. My second daughter “warned” my second wife, all I think about is sex. Her comment was “good”.

Gentlemen, hindsight is I asked the 50 year old how much she like sex, she said she did. Then she asked how often I wanted it. I said, once every couple of days, but sometimes every day. She said, e v e r y d a y, in a whiny voice like that was going to be toooo much. Well, gentlemen, I’m easy on my woman now. I’ll give it until she can’t take it anymore, or doesn’t want it. If you haven’t noticed, you don’t get it, unless she wants it anyway. So it’s up to you to make her WANT IT. But everyday is still very nice. Yup, I guess it’s in the head more than I thought. I was content with my first wife every couple of days, after 30 years of marriage. Hey, and she still looked as good to me as when we were first married. But guys, a 27 years younger wife is VERY HOT STUFF and older guys live longer when they are happy and well exercised. I like that kind of exercise (don’t you?) and honest, it would be a great way to die.

But people normally never die of exercise. They die because they quit exercising. Hey, my grandpa was over 70 and still HOT TO GO… Grandma wasn’t by that time though. So I wanted to make allowances for myself with a younger wife. Already knowing the sex desire curve of women by experience. For some men they should have spelled “menopause” as menostop. If you got it in your genes, use it or you’ll lose it. And you young guys. I’ve had more sex at age 58 than I did when I was 18, day for day, and total times and total longevity. So this experienced dog knows how to drive my young wife’s ***** like an expert, not a novice. It’s a total experience over the whole car more like a turbo-tunnel car wash in very slow motion that can last way 2 hours. And she likes it like that, you know what I mean? Just love them until they beg you to stop, then you have done your job well. And they are not telling you to stop because you hurt them, no… but because you have totally exhausted their total need and desire and gone beyond so that they are so delighted and happy they are exhausted also. Now gentlemen, you have to be in shape to do this, you can’t be no fat ass slob.

Lastly men. If you want to be a great lover. My thirty year old wife tells me, “I’m great and better than a 20 year old.” But she only read about 20 year olds. She was a virgin, but she’s right. She knows she has a good thing in this faithful older Christian husband.

Sex is the crown jewel on marriage and crap in the long run using it outside of marriage. Yet, I love the companionship with my second wife as much perhaps even more than my first wife. Because a wife MUST BE YOUR BEST FRIEND and who you tell everything. I hold nothing back from my wife. I sleep well every night, especially after making love and we are so content in each other's arms. As well as all through the day. So sex is just the 10% of marriage that makes the 100% great all the time.

And Gentlemen, the BEST SEX in only in the context of MARRIAGE before God, until death do us part. I’ve never committed adultery and I’ve only ever had one other woman prior to both marriages when I was still a sinner before I was saved and she wasn’t good at all (she wasn’t a virgin neither). Both of my wives were virgins and I’m the only man they have ever had. And both would tell you that I’m the only man they will ever need. Moral of the story is that the best sex is faithful sex in marriage before God. It just kept getting better and better over 37 years of marriage, because practice makes perfect. Security and a FREE CLEAR conscience in faithfulness gives the best mental mind to have excellent sex with. Because 80% of sex is between your ears, not the physical friction, and definitely not just the outward appearance. I figure I had intercourse over 10,000 times with my first wife and I’ve already had intercourse with my new wife over 400 times, in less than 5 months. I don’t want her to miss out on anything, even though she started marriage ten years later than my first wife. Men, one more thing. It’s always MORE FUN when you are making babies instead of having sterile sex. And when you are NOT sleeping around, you don’t have to worry about VD, or STD’s either. Just tell them, Grandpa told you. I know many of you out there do not have anyone you can ask and really get honest answers. This write up is real, honest, my personal experience, not some dream, but instead my second wife did indeed make all my dreams come true. And we did NOT have pre-marital sex, which is also a safe-guard against getting a divorce. Neither of us believe in divorce, it is out of the question. It is until death do us part. Go with God and HE will bless you in every way.

[Twinkle Toes]

Aye yay yay! My eyes are bleeding!!!

[malamute]

Wow.

[Twinkle Toes]

I braved it and read the whole thing! The only comment I'm going to make is ... well, not really a comment, it's this ...

[Lynda05125]

Wow Grandpa111 you go get her glad your happy!!

[Lynda05125]

Well I am a female and married a younger man been married 24 years and still in love like the first day that we meet I am 54 and he is 44.

[temptation001]

Can someone summarize what Grandpa111 wrote in like... 2 sentences.

Would appreciate it. Thanks.