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Unread 02-10-2009, 12:31 AM
 
Location: southern california
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best post i saw on CDF was the fantasty of women is brad pitt loading the dishwasher.
get a bad boy and tame him.
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Unread 02-10-2009, 12:31 AM
Status: "half happy half sad" (set 1 hour ago)
 
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As far as I'm aware they're exactly where they've always been.

There's quite a few of them around here actually.
That explains it! They're on a different continent! Thanks, Moon!
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Unread 02-10-2009, 12:35 AM
 
Location: Northeast NJ
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I truly believe you are just a moron. No one likes to be treated like sh*t. I certainly don't. Overly cocky/confident guys are a massive turn-off. I can see right through a bull-**** front, and find it very shallow and boring.
Lots of women do actually. Like I said, congrats if you're the exception, but you are just that...the exception. Killer2021 may be what you say he is, but if he is as good as he says he is with girls (and I believe it), well then he is on to something. Will it work past 30? No, but that's plenty of time for the non-Jerks to become jaded.
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Unread 02-10-2009, 12:37 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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Contrary to belief, there IS a middle ground
I agree....and this is what most sane women want. A truly nice guy who is also confident and exciting, but still kind and caring.


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Is he nice because he was exciting when single but after you married him, he was willing to change and be domesticated?
Why do exciting and married have to be mutually exclusive?
My idea of a nice guy is someone who is exciting and doesn't need "taming".
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Unread 02-10-2009, 12:37 AM
 
Location: Northeast NJ
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best post i saw on CDF was the fantasty of women is brad pitt loading the dishwasher.
get a bad boy and tame him.
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Unread 02-10-2009, 02:28 AM
 
Location: Humboldt, Tennessee
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I think there is a difference between "bad boys" and then the genuinely nice guys who have a bad boy side. You don't have to pick between exciting bad boys and boring nice guys. There are happy mediums. Not to tug my own chain or anything, but I consider myself somewhere in the medium. I try to keep the relationship interesting with my significant other, even though it is long distance. For instance, she would sometimes joke flirtatiously about how I wasn't very spontaneous and I should do things out of the blue. Well, one day I packed up my things and took a twelve hour road trip to see her unexpectedly. I had a mutual friend plan a party that she was invited to (they did a good job convincing her to go to it) and our friend said she was waiting on some other of her friends to get to the party. Needless to say, my girlfriend was in shock when I walked through the door. It was interesting because I was texting her like I always do from work and even called and chatted as if I was still at work. It was fun. She was already under the impression work would NOT let me off for vacation until March due to the huge amount of projects we have. But anyways, that's just a fun little story. As far as being the bad boy type, well I am not sure how well I meet up to that standard. I like to have that aura about me flirting and teasing, but overall I don't walk through public thinking I am some kinda bad***** deserving of everyone's utmost respect nor do I think women always want to see a lawless cowboy. It's fun bending or breaking a few laws every once in a while--and sure that I do--but I keep a level head about me. I am sure there are a lot of guys who have similar mentalities as I do and maybe who can pull off the happy medium a lot better than I do. Admittedly, the main bad boy type I have is when it comes to romance, flirting and everything within that general area.
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Unread 02-10-2009, 02:32 AM
 
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That explains it! They're on a different continent! Thanks, Moon!
I actually meant "around here" meaning CD but there's some nice guys in Oz too.
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Unread 02-10-2009, 03:48 AM
 
Location: Madison, AL
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Not playing myself up, but I'm a catch!
I call it BS without pics....
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Unread 02-10-2009, 03:50 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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I'm a nice guy and I'm over here <--------------------------{
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Unread 02-10-2009, 04:00 AM
 
Location: Madison, AL
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they are right where you left them when you went after that bad boy.
Darn right. Nice guys found nice girls and happily ever after.
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