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Old 08-20-2014, 11:30 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Fat Freddy View Post
When I was a kid, we didn't have middle school. We went to one school from the first to through the eighth grade then went to highschool.

But around the fifth or sixth grade was when we started going to parties where we danced and played kissing games.
If this wasn't sex, I don't know what you would call it.

It took a few more years for most of us to learn the correct moves, but from about eleven years old on, we certainly talked about sex a lot and did whatever part of it we knew how.
Kissing and dancing is not sex. I got a hard on at 6, didn't mean I was read for sex or the repercussions.

 
Old 08-20-2014, 11:32 PM
 
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When I was a kid, we didn't have middle school. We went to one school from the first to through the eighth grade then went to highschool.

But around the fifth or sixth grade was when we started going to parties where we danced and played kissing games.
If this wasn't sex, I don't know what you would call it.

It took a few more years for most of us to learn the correct moves, but from about eleven years old on, we certainly talked about sex a lot and did whatever part of it we knew how.
And your barn parties are the reason why a lot of girls end up pregnant in rural regions at almost the same rate they do in urban regions.
 
Old 08-20-2014, 11:36 PM
 
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And your barn parties are the reason why a lot of girls end up pregnant in rural regions at almost the same rate they do in urban regions.
lol comments on a something that was written two years ago.
 
Old 08-20-2014, 11:47 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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Its really hillarious that most people in our country believe that older virgins are a turn off. Im a 41 year old virgin and waiting till marriage. For me the turnoff and the hillarious part is finding out that a potential date or a woman im interested in has had premarital sex and actually thinks its a cool thing and normal.

No wonder why we have a 65% divorce rate. No one should ever complain about that because it seems liek society is totally into short term relationships that will never last. No wonder why hollywood is so popular lol
Let's see this was posted over five years ago, I wonder if OP is still a virgin at 46? How long does one want to wait for marriage? It makes sense when one is young, but why did you not get married during all these years? You are a middle aged man, did it not occur in case you did not find anyone suitable for marriage,that perhaps date and have a relationship? Life is short! I do t know if I would date one, its neither a turn on or turn off. I am still in my twenties, maybe two decades from now it will be a turn off.
 
Old 08-21-2014, 12:12 AM
 
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I would date one. It's really silly to turn down a nice person because of his or her lack of sexual experience.
 
Old 08-21-2014, 12:27 AM
 
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I'm 10 years younger than you, and I would be pretty hypocritical if I didn't, since I'm a virgin myself.

The problem that I have with older female virgins, however, is that they are most likely extremely religious, and I'm not. I'm spiritual, but not religious. I would have trouble relating to a woman who saved herself because of a religion, when I saved it for other reasons (namingly not meeting someone that I wanted to lose it to.)
 
Old 08-21-2014, 05:05 AM
 
Location: US,Florida
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For me its not virginity, its about the attitude that I would like to date.
 
Old 08-21-2014, 06:57 AM
 
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when someone says "im waiting until marriage"

the next question is what if you dont get married?

a man in particular where marriage is not an active goal on most mens mind

you wont live longer by waiting... and at some point that thing will take control and will steer you into making bad decisions
 
Old 08-21-2014, 06:59 AM
 
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lmao, didnt realize this thread was old

hope the op is ok these days
 
Old 08-21-2014, 08:36 AM
 
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Here we go......

Idk why there is negativity attached to someone's virginity.
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