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Old 05-18-2009, 08:21 PM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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no kidding i once pretended to be a guy in a chat room , and holy crap women swarmed to me, ewwwwwww one was even my friend, i imed her and told her who i was. she felt sooo dumb. i had to laugh!
So Raena...why would you pretend to be a guy?? Then make fun of someone who you are calling dumb because she believed you? And making her feel dumb made you feel....what? Apparently good because you were laughing about it. I think what you did sucks...
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Old 05-18-2009, 11:15 PM
 
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no kidding i once pretended to be a guy in a chat room , and holy crap women swarmed to me, ewwwwwww one was even my friend, i imed her and told her who i was. she felt sooo dumb. i had to laugh!
LOL. One time I went into a chatroom and pretended to be a guy so as to not get hit on by the guys there who were preety annoying that night, then this girl pmed me asking to have role-play sex with her. I got out of there so fast, she must of wondered if I had ever existed.
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Old 05-18-2009, 11:18 PM
 
Location: southern california
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yes but to say so would humiliate me.
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Old 05-18-2009, 11:18 PM
 
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So Raena...why would you pretend to be a guy?? Then make fun of someone who you are calling dumb because she believed you? And making her feel dumb made you feel....what? Apparently good because you were laughing about it. I think what you did sucks...


Well I learned quickly . That was one too many times for me.
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Old 05-19-2009, 02:08 AM
 
Location: USA
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How can anyone have a crush on someone they never met? Isn't this just words on a page? I mean, how can you know someone from just posting on a forum?
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Old 05-19-2009, 02:34 AM
 
Location: NSW Australia
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I'm terrible with this , I start to think some guy is really nice and focusing his attention on me and then I go through conversations they have with any other girl in the forum and they're saying the same nice things to them. I've learned not to take anyone seriously, it took me a while though. Too naive for my own good sometimes.
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Old 05-19-2009, 02:41 AM
 
Location: USA
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I'm terrible with this , I start to think some guy is really nice and focusing his attention on me and then I go through conversations they have with any other girl in the forum and they're saying the same nice things to them. I've learned not to take anyone seriously, it took me a while though. Too naive for my own good sometimes.

You know, they do that on dating sites and in real life too.

"Oh, man, you're special!"

"I really like YOU. I think I want to spend more time with YOU"

"You have really great eyes."
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Old 05-19-2009, 02:42 AM
 
Location: USA
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The ones who want to "add you to my favorites"...for what? Their website harem? If they really wanted to get to know someone, they would, but this is just that internet stuff of pretending.
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Old 05-19-2009, 02:52 AM
 
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You know, they do that on dating sites and in real life too.

"Oh, man, you're special!"

"I really like YOU. I think I want to spend more time with YOU"

"You have really great eyes."
That is so true.
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Old 05-19-2009, 02:55 AM
Status: "goin' with it" (set 13 hours ago)
 
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I think it's pretty automatic and easy for us to think someone looks and is a certain way based on what he or she writes. It can be really easy to think someone is your ideal match because you both love kangaroos so much or because you both are really creative with adverbs. It's good for you to see how these people write to others, so if telling everybody else they're fabulous, you know you have to come back down to reality!

This is not You've Got Mail, but that would be nice!
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