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older woman goes out to kareoke. Meets man who man who hit's on her. They have casual chat. What is so interesting about this mundane every day occurance? other than to let everyone know she got hit on ???
Nice guys will wait and want to get to know you a little bit better before there is any kind of physical stuff happening. There are lots of nice guys out there who will wait for you and want to find out who you are first before they venture any further.
Nice guys finish last--very true. The OPer is obviously interested in this guy--in part because he's a player. She's not writing about the nice guys because they bore her & she shoos them off. She wants a LTR or better with a player, but that doesn't work out so well does it? When womens' biological clocks tick louder, only then do the nice guys become interesting, too bad for those guys.
The OPer is obviously interested in this guy--in part because he's a player. She's not writing about the nice guys because they bore her & she shoos them off. She wants a LTR or better with a player, but that doesn't work out so well does it? When womens' biological clocks tick louder, only then do the nice guys become interesting, too bad for those guys.
The story of my life. Why is it that the bad boys are so attractive to young women? Too bad we cant look down the road and see how most attractive bad boys just grow into dirty old men.
I think he's an @ssh@le and I'd have left him in my dust.
Agreed.
He told you what he wants, and you don't want that. So why waste either of your time? He's not going to magically change just because you are so awesome. His motives are the same, and you're kidding yourself if you think he wants more than just sex.
Why is it that the bad boys are so attractive to young women? Too bad we cant look down the road and see how most attractive bad boys just grow into dirty old men.
If I was a young woman I'd be checking out the hiking and bicycling clubs & other leisure sports clubs. Those would be filled with virile active males. Of course the woman should be able to keep up! Can you imagine how many dates she could get, with the competition busy at the mall? A friend of mine found a high-quality husband that way (although in her case she was there because she actually enjoys hiking).
Sister friend let me tell you some powerful advice.
First of all, I feel for you, because you are a strong woman out there on your own and partying and doing your best. Good job.
The next you must realize that a lot of men will wait or pretend to "work" for the sex or they will "pretend date". How do I know, because guys have openly discussed that with me.
Good luck
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Originally Posted by CESpeed
Last night I went to karaoke and I met this really cute guy (there goes the last resolution). We were talking and he said to me "You mean I have a shot?" and I told him well yeah I'm sitting here, aren't I? Then he says oh wow I didn't think I was gonna get any tonight. I immediately corrected him and told him that I was telling him he had a shot to date me. If he wanted anything more, he had to wait until I knew him better.
He said he was okay with that, so I said," Besides, a male friend told me that guys appreciate it more when they have to work for it." He looked at me and said, "Your friend is absolutely right." And then proceeded to try to change my mind about sleeping with that night! When I reminded him that he agreed he'd appreciate it more if he had to work for it, he said, "I shot myself in the foot, huh?"
Outside of the fact I wouldn't have done it anyway (I just met him), I think it's funny that even if I were so inclined, he think he would have gotten it after making that comment. lol
I think we had a similar thread, but comments anyway?
Nice guys finish last--very true. The OPer is obviously interested in this guy--in part because he's a player. She's not writing about the nice guys because they bore her & she shoos them off. She wants a LTR or better with a player, but that doesn't work out so well does it? When womens' biological clocks tick louder, only then do the nice guys become interesting, too bad for those guys.
And you know this HOW??? Do you follow me around and see me shoo off nice guys? I live in LA, players are a dime a dozen, if I wanted a player, I could have one without effort. But I have to put forth effort because finding a guy whose priority isn't his penis is a challenge.
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