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Old 02-26-2009, 05:00 PM
 
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Here's what I have always found attractive:

1) Sense of humor.
2) A sense of warmth and generosity.
3) The ability to roll with the punches.
4) Curiosity.
5) The ability to try just about anything, from the symphony to a football game.
6) Someone who is more interested in me than in her.
7) Someone who is more interested in the health of the relationship than me.
8) Intelligent eyes
9) Supple athletic thighs.
10) Firm, ample, and responsive tatas.
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Old 02-26-2009, 05:11 PM
 
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Finally a question here I am an expert on

I do not have a physical type per say. It's what ever strikes my fancy at the time; could be red hair,a woman's dimple's, her smile, etc...but most importantly when a woman carries her self with self confidance...BUT she has to have a certain doubt about that confidance...you know what I mean? Cockiness is not cool.

Characteristics for me I like are sarcasm, humor, and a woman that kind find the upside in a bad situation.
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Old 02-26-2009, 05:16 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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A woman's sweet smile and caring words wins the day for me. Also being smart and down to earth. Since woman come in all shapes and sizes only their personality would be able to win my heart.

What personalities do I hate? The "it's all about me" attitude. I'm to sexy for most men nonsense.
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Old 02-26-2009, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Murphy, NC
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First I like a girl with respect for herself. Not so attached and emotionally clingy but warm, theirself, express their love through actions not words. Someone u can talk to like a regular friend. I'm basicly describing a girl I've always loved.
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Old 02-26-2009, 06:00 PM
 
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First of all, it's pretty pointless to ask men this question because men all look for different things...women generally always say "sensitive, funny, committed" but men are across the board and no two men are alike.

Me, I would think that I would want a woman who was romanticist, i.e., someone who dreams of different periods of history, can understand a fascination with folklore and mythology, can find beauty in something other than a new outfit, new car, or a puppy. The kind of personality that would make her understand why I like to go hiking in the Catskills while singing folk songs to the trees and someone who can understand why I keep photographs of Golden Age Graffiti in NYC and why I want to vacation in Scotland just to see the castles...in other words, a romanticist girl...

....granted, I will never find such a female in New Jersey, where the only things girls around here dream of is having yet another day at the guido beach and doing Jagger-bombs at night, but maybe when I move I'll have better luck.

And watch, the guys after me will say something completely different! Good news for Women: no matter who you are or what you are like, there's a guy looking for you and daydreaming of someone just like you!

Men?...if you're not funny and tall and good looking, forget it!
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Old 02-26-2009, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Democratic Peoples Republic of Redneckistan
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What are most men attracted to for a personality of a woman? What did men like or dislike about woman's personalities from past experiences?
I absolutely love a mouthy woman that can keep up with me on insults and other banter(evil sense of humor is a must and one who can take a fart joke or practical joke without getting mad)....I love smart women who can throw a zinger at you and stop you dead in your tracks just when you think you've heard it all before..I love independent women who don't feel the need to make me the focus of their life and thereby smothering both of us......I'll tell you when I finally meet this dream woman..........
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Old 02-26-2009, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Beautiful New England
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I like openness, kindness, and a positive, upbeat demeanor. Gotta be at smart, too. And being level-headed and down to earth are major pluses.

I absolutely hate, loathe, and despise "bitchiness"/attitude. When dating I would have nothing to do with women who had a chip on their shoulder. I find nothing less appealing but it is, sadly, quite common. I find it bewildering that some guys were attracted to such women...thrill of the chase, I guess.
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Old 02-27-2009, 09:51 AM
 
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I would want a woman who dreams of different periods of history, can understand a fascination with folklore and mythology, can find beauty in something other than a new outfit, car, or puppy. ...understand why I like to go hiking in the Catskills while singing folk songs to the trees and someone who can understand why I want to vacation in Scotland just to see the castles...

Good news for Women: no matter who you are or what you are like, there's a guy looking for you and daydreaming of someone just like you!
This is lovely, describes to a an absolute T (as in Truth) my kind of guy.
And I looooooove the "good news" part, thank you so much for a warm inspiring post that climbed out of the ethers today and whispered to me exactly what my heart needs to hear!
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Old 02-27-2009, 10:02 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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I just patented the word "smartassness".
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Old 02-27-2009, 01:28 PM
 
Location: Florida and East "by God" Tennessee
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What are most men attracted to for a personality of a woman? What did men like or dislike about woman's personalities from past experiences?
If we think a bit further into the future... and ask who would we want to be with you when you pass from this life... you may find the answer a bit different then what can be seen in the moment.

I have found that a woman who has the ability to "lovingly yield" herself to the needs of others, will truely make for a woman for all seasons.

I have found someone who chooses independence over dependence does not make a good life partner.
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