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Old 03-03-2009, 05:11 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Old 03-03-2009, 06:45 PM
 
Location: in purgurtory in London
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I know everything about HOA'S her, him, what kind of grass each lawn has on it...but help me i'm clueless about this situtation...are you writing a lifetime network/burning bed starring the fat girl from I know what you did last summer..whose not really fat because sizes are altered so fat a$$'S don't feel bad at walmart, story?

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Old 03-03-2009, 06:48 PM
 
Location: in purgurtory in London
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Also when questioned..the outside party who is just posting for somebody else even just starting out knowing them from another board...suddenly can tell you how many grains of salt are in the persons salt shakers in their home....but i'm sure this isn't one of those cases
You might be right you know, but isn't it all a little obsessive?
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Old 03-03-2009, 06:54 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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Id carry a pistol, sleep with my shotgun and PRAY this person would be stupid and come into my house...

If Jasper didnt get him, I would.
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Old 03-03-2009, 06:56 PM
 
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Default I Had a Bad One!!!

I had a stalker in the past. Between September '07 and late December of last year, I had constant messages and surprise visits from a man. He was my age and was a friend of my former friend. He would brag on and on about why I need to: be a different person, support Bush, the far-right, getting obsessed with modern day media, and dumping my what would have been my current girlfriend (Which I eventually did).
In a case like mine, the best thing to do is call 9-1-1 if it happens. In that time period mentioned, I had to call 9-1-1 almost every Sunday morning (around 2:30) due to surprise visits. He gained access to my house through a broken garage door. Because I cannot afford a new one, it has not been fixed. My garage is attached to the family room of my 1956 ranch.
I also submitted copies of phone messages and e-mails he sent to the local police department.
I filed a restraining order late last year. It served in seven days. I gathered my evidence and showed it right to the judge. He wholeheartedly agreed with me and my witnesses. At the trial and when he was served, he got so angry that he had to be restrained with a harness.
This man was ANNOYING and true devil. He talked like Ashton Kutcher with a nasal voice and was clearly from Orange County (as he clearly implied to me). He hasn't seen me since after January 2nd. That was when he was served. In recent weeks, I recieved a few messages. No visits though. The messages were simply, "I hope you're happy you got me locked up." He's serving three to five years in jail. That will teach him.
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Old 03-03-2009, 07:10 PM
 
Location: in purgurtory in London
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He hasn't seen me since after January 2nd. That was when he was served. In recent weeks, I recieved a few messages. No visits though. The messages were simply, "I hope you're happy you got me locked up." He's serving three to five years in jail. That will teach him.
That's not very long. He'll be out soon, then I'd be worried.
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Old 03-03-2009, 08:05 PM
 
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That's not very long. He'll be out soon, then I'd be worried.
Yeah, you're right. I didn't know his sentence was that short. Since time flies by these days, three to five years is a lot less than what it is.
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