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To women who complain that there are "no good men out there"
I hear women all the time saying "a good man is hard to find!" and "why can't I find a nice, decent man?" Well, there is one awful truth that women usually, deep down inside know, but many (repeat: not all, but many) refuse to admit.
Want a man who is kind, honest, faithful, and does not just want you for sex? Want a man who is romantic, sensitive (but not too sensitive, as in cries when his team looses) listens to you and is a compassionate partner? The kind of guy who will honor you, be there for you, and not just think of you as a f%$#^ buddy? The kind of guy who is actually intrested in what you have to say, and will cook dinner for you, help out around the house, and be a all around great guy?
Well, THERE ARE men like that out there, but here's the cetch (you knew it was coming...) most of them don't look like this:
Want a great place to meet nice, intelligent, sensitive men? Don't try the bar or the club or someone your friend knows, try a Dungeons and Dragons convention...who better to act like a "Knight in shining armor" then a guy who actually enjoys pretending to be a "Knight in shining armor"?
Star Trek conventions, comic swaps, engineering competitions etc, these are all the best places to meet the best men but alas, they are all nerds.
Women always seem to moan and complain that "there are no good men out there!" and yet they only seem to want to go out with men who are part-time underwear models named "Biff". If you are into the "bad boys", well, I hate to break it to you, but he'll probably be bad to you too!
Try finding a nice dork...and I hate it when women say "but I love dorks!" I have found that that is, 99 times out of a 100, code for "I call my bodybuilding, club bouncer boyfriend a dork" and it does not mean that they are actually into men who might *gasp!* like to read a book for the fun of it every now and again
Keep chasing after a man who, although he would never admit it, is role-playing of Snoop Dog or some other super-pimp, and that is what you'll get...so why not try a guy who admits that he's role-playing a Paladin (holy knight in D&D) and, maybe, you'll get someone who actually is indeed a Paladin.
If all you want are hunky, charismatic men who will sweep you off your feet, be ready to deal with allot of jerks, because most guys like that are indeed bastards...want a nice, caring guy? Than abandon the notion that you'll have a male-model and try finding an awkward, intelligent and caring dork.
It's best to show concern, pity, and compassion for the OP.
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