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Old 03-01-2009, 06:09 PM
 
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A few months ago I had a second appointment with a doctor in town - hate to be too specific, but a specialist. By all accounts, he's single and slightly nerdy (reaching mid-40s). There was huge, huge, huge, chemistry. I had a friend there who basically said later "get a room" (and thought he really liked me) although nothing inappropriate was stated in either direction. I think he showed tremendous interest, but I don't wan't to seem "crazy". Is there anything rational I can do next to test his interest or is it futile given that he is soooo serious and professional? It's been a couple of months and oddly enough I thought he would find some way to make contact. [Here I am sounding crazy again!]
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Old 03-01-2009, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Fiji
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Schedule another appointment, even if you don't really need to see a doc. Then go from there and see if there is still any magic.
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Old 03-01-2009, 06:13 PM
 
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Have an extra ticket handy to a charity event, or maybe a ballgame. Send it :>)

(He would deem it "inappropriate" for him to make a first move anyways.)
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Old 03-01-2009, 06:16 PM
 
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Thank you both for not saying, you know, the obvious/opposite. He did schedule an appt coming up in roughly 5 weeks so I can see how that goes, unless something else comes up?
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Old 03-01-2009, 06:22 PM
 
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Good luck! There are great guys out there in every profession! Doctors are certainly no exception :>)
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Old 03-01-2009, 06:38 PM
 
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... thanks so much - I have a pretty strong feeling about this one but I guess we'll see. I moved in the last couple of years (here) to this semi-small (maybe medium) sized town - the circle of highly educated types is really somewhat small. So I'm asking for your trust, but I'm also asking for a reality check.
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Old 03-01-2009, 06:53 PM
 
Location: Northern NH
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I am sure you can form a line
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Old 03-01-2009, 07:01 PM
 
Location: Lost in Montana *recalculating*...
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Is he your gropeacologist? If so- he's seen it before, lol.
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Old 03-01-2009, 07:12 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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You'll have to make the first move somehow. I doubt scheduling an appointment will do the trick though because he would be WORKING and thus, it wouldn't be kosher for him to put the moves on you. Your best bet would probably be to make some small talk with him and find out what he likes to do and then get yourself involved in the activity he likes and keep your fingers crossed that you "accidentally" run into him.
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Old 03-01-2009, 07:16 PM
 
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Tell Dr. Feel Good you need your pap smeared

or

Ask him he does at home physicals
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