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Revenge is for people with little shriveled souls. Move on and deal.
Until the next person who shats on you and then the next and then the next and eventually you would have to get revenge because you can't go through life being shat on by everybody.
Until the next person who shats on you and then the next and then the next and eventually you would have to get revenge because you can't go through life being shat on by everybody.
If EVERYONE is taking a dump on you then the problem just might be YOU. Go beat yourself up.
Until the next person who shats on you and then the next and then the next and eventually you would have to get revenge because you can't go through life being shat on by everybody.
Until the next person who shats on you and then the next and then the next and eventually you would have to get revenge because you can't go through life being shat on by everybody.
Well, perhaps if you live your life with a little bit of wisdom or foresight, you won't find yourself in these situations all the time. Just saying. Show me somebody who claims to always be a victim of other people and I'll show you a person who pretty much makes awful decisions all the time.
One other thing. Mindlessly lashing out doesn't make the situation better. Typically, it makes matter far worse.
nobody owes us respect, or anything else for that matter. even still, people aren't usually disrespectful for no reason. perhaps it's your interactions with people that is the key.
I used to think similar to you, but i realised that I was to blame. i now think that if people are disrespectful then it's their issue not mine, and that i should learn more about how people interact. i think observing why most persons get along is key, for me anyhow.
I know my own nature, and I am vindictive. Thing is, I don't plot and scheme. But I am willing to wait as long as it takes for me to get even. I would literally wait until eternity just to have the chance to get even. I also won't forgive them until 3 things happen 1.) I get even. 2.) the universe punishes them for forcing their will on me and therefore breaking the laws of the universe, and 3.) they repent and beg for forgiveness.
I don't know much, but I know that the opportunity will present itself sooner or later. And I also know, that I will take it. No regrets, and NO hesitation.
Yup! That is how I feel also. I'll just lie in wait until the right time to strike.
If EVERYONE is taking a dump on you then the problem just might be YOU. Go beat yourself up.
That is messed up. LOL!!
Here's how I see it
If someone is taking a dump on me, he had better have a good reason or else I am dumping back.
Sometimes people "take a dump" on you just because they can. For instance, if you are a "nice guy" trying to get along with people and for some reason people keep messing with you and you keep turning the cheek, maybe it's the cheek turning that is attracting more attacks.
Sometimes you have to stand your ground.
Over the past year, I've had people try to accuse me of things that not only I didn't do, but I wouldn't do. Back then, I was nice to everyone and extremely forgiving and I smiled a lot. One day after 20+ false accusations and character insults, I stated my case (harshly) and not only did he shut up, but every other slanderer as well.
Nowadays I walk around with a mean look, and an even meaner kick.
When someone does something to you, do you pay them back with the same coin or with something 10 times as worse (like I do)? Or do you just turn the other cheek and let it go?
It depends on what happened, some things I can brush off. But if anyone goes after a family member I am a bit protective.
When someone does something to you, do you pay them back with the same coin or with something 10 times as worse (like I do)? Or do you just turn the other cheek and let it go?
Reminds me of my tennis doubles partner... or other High School friends...
Something happens, then I try to do something to "get them back" but nothing too harmful, but some people take your vengence and go insane and do worse things... so you have to watch who you return fire against... like my doubles partner....
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