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Old 03-09-2009, 08:41 PM
 
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i need to know hoe to legally put my bf out!!!! he's not payin any portion of rent or utilities, and the relationship has become violent at times in the past, but he won't leave! how do i make him leave?
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Old 03-10-2009, 11:59 AM
 
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Try telling him you have recently discovered you are a lesbian
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Old 03-10-2009, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Tejas
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If you have called the police on him previously you may be able to get a restraining order against him. You need to talk to an attorney.
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Old 03-10-2009, 02:40 PM
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Location: Upstairs closet
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Try telling him you have recently discovered you are a lesbian

That would not budge me, in fact...oh nevermind.

Tell him you are preggers. That should move him out promptly.

lln
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Old 03-10-2009, 02:51 PM
 
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If you contact one of the help organizations for women and ask for their help they can point you in the right direction and give you any assistance you may need.
This is what they do for a living.
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Old 03-10-2009, 04:15 PM
 
Location: Formerly TX, UT and CT - Currently NC
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Is the place you currently live in in both of your names?
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Old 03-10-2009, 05:01 PM
 
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i need to know hoe to legally put my bf out!!!! he's not payin any portion of rent or utilities, and the relationship has become violent at times in the past, but he won't leave! how do i make him leave?
Val- Try calling the Woman's Shelter in your area, The Lighthouse. They usually have compassionate, knowledgeable staff who would be able to provide you with help. Their number is 919 736-1313.
Good Luck and stay safe!
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Old 03-11-2009, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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If he's not on the lease and doesn't pay rent, he's trespassing if you decide you don't want him there--call the police. However, if you think that would put you in danger, you'd be safer to call a domestic violence hotline and ask them for help. They can probably help you find a place to stay/arrange for a restraining order/etc.
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Old 03-13-2009, 02:16 PM
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Location: Upstairs closet
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Don't hold back Carla, please tell us how you really feel.

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Old 03-14-2009, 06:51 PM
 
Location: Wilmington, NC
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Sometimes it's better if you get yourself out of a situation that is not right rather than trying to get someone else to leave.
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