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writes: I have been dating an American man for about two years. He is loving, handsome and everything I have ever wanted in a partner. He wants to take the relationship to the next level, which would mean marriage since neither of us can work legally in each other's country. I feel it is too soon to settle down, and wish we had the option of living together before tying the knot.
We are both in our mid-20s. Also, I would like to travel abroad with friends, which he supports. He admits that he is terrible at long-distance relationships and does not know if he can wait a year or two before being together. I am worried he might end things if I don't make a firmer commitment to him. I also worry about regrets and everything I can still experience before marriage.
Should I do my best to reassure him about my intentions, or is this a lost cause?
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Originally Posted by Dan
writes: If this genders were reversed people would say she is looking for commitment and would say the guy needs to commit or cut her loose so she can get on with finding a husband.
What is wrong with a guy asking for a commitment?
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Originally Posted by Mike
Reply to Dan: Both of us already know the answer to this rhetorical question.
Accept that if you are a man, you're always wrong and it’s always your fault.
Then, once you no longer care, you can have fun posting whatever comments will get their hackles up!
With enemies like I've accumulated on the net, who needs friends?
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